August 31, 2007
Dan McConchie update
Since June 22, I have posted information about Dan McConchie, a pro-life leader and friend, who was involved in a harrowing motorcycle accident that day. Dan is Vice President and Executive Director of Americans United for Life.
I will move this post up as I receive new information on Dan's condition, so well wishes and prayers can be added to just one post. I will move old updates to page 2, in reverse chronological order. Also see updates Dan's family is posting on this website: prayfordanielmcconchie.com The website contains an inspiring song as backdrop.
From Dan McConchie
Sent August 29, 2007
Thank you again for your many recent notes of encouragement. Your friendship has meant so much during this grueling ordeal. I have much enjoyed the humor of many of you and the votes of confidence in our Lord’s ability to make me whole again.
There have been a few changes as of late, so I wanted to let you all know what was new....
I can now feel my legs and contract muscles all the way down to my calves! The muscles have started tightening first along the bone are slowly gathering strength with the daily contraction workouts I put them through. It seems that I get a little more feeling and function each day. I can’t yet feel when someone touches my legs, but they are more sensitive to temperature as of late and we’re hoping that more feeling will come with expanded muscle control.
My shoulder is now healed allowing me to put full weight on it. Now I can transfer myself from the bed to the wheelchair and from the chair to the car with minimal assistance. Our local YMCA gave us a free household membership so my Dad and I go over there every afternoon and work out my upper body to get it in shape for rehab.
Rehab is still up in the air. I have all but decided against going back up to Milwaukee for rehab. The VA hospital has said I’m not eligible, and I’ve lost confidence in the rehab doctor in charge at the hospital where I was for a month. I have an appointment for an assessment at the Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago, but the first appointment I could get was in mid-October. We’re hoping we might be able to move that up some, but don’t know if that will be possible.
In the meantime, I continue to get stronger and more mobile. Thank you again for your prayers and support. I know they have been crucial during my recovery.
From Dan McConchie
Sent August 16, 2007 [JLS note: Sorry I'm remiss in posting this update.]
My good friend Wendy Wright pointed out to me the other day that I needed to send an update on my condition to a wider array of people. In her words, the original message of my accident "went viral" and so there are a lot of people who know about it, but haven't had a recent update.
For those of you who don't know, on June 22 I was involved in a hit and run accident on my motorcycle. The accident left me with a broken clavicle, broken shoulder blade, six broken ribs, a deflated left lung, and two broken vertebrae - T12 and L3 (for those of you anatomy buffs). T12 was the more severely damaged and is causing virtual complete paralysis lower body paralysis.
I was transported to my local hospital (which was at a loss of what to do with me) and three hours later was sent by Medivac to a hospital in Milwaukee, WI which specializes in spinal cord injuries. There I underwent extensive back surgery where, as I understand, they took blood platelets and mixed them with stem cells taken from bone marrow in my hip to create a type of paste that they coated my spinal cord with. This they hope will help spur some nerve awakening and regeneration. After that I spent two weeks unconscious in the ICU having fanciful hallucinations thanks to the cocktail of pain medications I required.
After awaking, I spent another two weeks in the hospital before being discharged. While most patients would have gone directly to rehabilitation to learn to care for themselves, I was kept from doing so both because my broken shoulder needed to heal prior to being able to bear any weight with my left arm, and because my back injuries were so extensive that the back brace I am forced to wear for three months is too restrictive to allow much rehab to take place. (I was given two awards in the hospital - one by a nurse who said I had the largest spinal incision she had ever seen, and one by a spinal clinic x-ray technician who said I had more titanium in my spine than she had ever seen.)
So, since July 19, I have been camping on an antiquated medical bed in my living room under the watchful care and selfless assistance of my father, mother-in-law, and above all my wife Milena whom I owe so much for everything she has done for me since the accident.
There has been a limited return of feeling and function below the site of the spinal injury, but nothing "meaningful" (in the words of my rehab doctor's nurse) yet. We continue to pray for a full return of feeling and function.
I am working part-time from home. My home recovery has gone well, but not without its complications. I currently get severe muscle spasms and knotting in my back along the spine whenever I try to sit up in my wheelchair. A doctor friend of mine told me that from personal experience she knew that these kinds of spasms cause similar pain to childbearing. Great... I have a physical therapist coming this weekend to see if she can help alleviate come of the problem.
One interesting thing I've discovered is that doctors who work in this area of medicine don't step an inch outside their specialty. Thus, the only help I've gotten from them has been prescriptions to stronger and stronger narcotics. I've also discovered that I'll never be addicted to narcotics because they don't do a thing for me. I might as well be taking sugar tablets.
In addition, my body, recognizing I've had a major trauma, has been working overtime to fix things - to the point that it's now trying to fix things that aren't broken. Last week we discovered that my body is dumping bone in my right hip which is beginning to result in a significant lack of mobility for that joint. I'm on a new drug now to try to limit this condition.
At this point, I plan to continue working through September and then go into rehab the first of October. Let me thank all of you for your prayers, encouraging words, and support you've offered to me and my family over the past weeks since my accident. It's been a long, tough road, but not one without its rewards to go with the suffering.
I appreciate your prayers as I continue to recover.
From Dan McConchie
Sent August 09, 2007
First let me thank all of you for your prayers, encouraging words, and support you've offered to me and my family over the past six weeks since my hit and run accident. It's been a long, tough road, but not one without its rewards to go with the suffering.
Yesterday, I spent the entire day visiting doctors in Milwaukee. I thought I'd give you a short update as to what's going on.
Regarding my long term recovery, the docs have decided that I shouldn't come back to rehab until I lose the back brace I currently have to wear. The back surgeon has extended my wearing of that brace for another six weeks to ensure the vertebrae are all healed. This means that at this point I won't be going back to rehab until the end of September. On a positive note, that should enable my participation in strategic planning, board meeting, and the gala. I have been slowly getting some feeling and function back below the site of the injury which has been encouraging. We continue to pray for more to come.
Regarding short term ailments, I seem to have a pinched nerve or some similar ailment in my right hip that has been causing me a huge amount of grief in the past couple weeks. It has severely curtailed my ability to spend much time out of bed due to the resulting pain. My doctors are all specialists who seem to be of no help whatsoever outside their direct area of expertise. Move a centimeter outside their area, and they become mum. If you're lucky, they'll recommend you to another specialty. So yesterday presented no help whatsoever toward my current pressing problem other than the fact that I secured prescriptions to more powerful narcotics which I'm loath to take.
All said, if I can get past this current hip problem, I'll be doing quite well for someone of my injuries at this point in time. I appreciate your prayers as I continue to recover.
From Daniel S. McConchie
Sent July 19, 2007
Thanks so much for helping keep friends and others in the know about my situation. It's been an incredibly tough month. Everyone's prayers have been very important in helping me recover so far.
I go home today to allow my left shoulder to heal. In a month or so, I'll return to the hospital for rehabilitation. I have prayed and asked God for the ability to walk again. I trust God will answer my prayers in his time.
While this is a terrible situation, I have already seen it be a positive in other people's lives, and for that I'm grateful. I continue to ask for the prayers of friends and strangers alike that God would heal my spinal cord and enable me to walk again.
I look forward to feeding you good news in the future.
From Ginger (Dan's co-worker)
Sent July 18, 2007
Some good news...
Dan will probably be going home tomorrow morning. That's the plan for now unless something changes today. A friend from his church has been helping get a temporary ramp set up at the house....
Also, he started having some feeling in his midsection - bladder and the area around there. And asks, "Pray it continues to expand!" It's the first feeling he's regained and he, obviously, was very excited. I told him that we'd all keep praying....
It's nice to have good news.
From Ginger (Dan's co-worker)
Sent July 12, 2007
I talked with Milena today and Dan did have surgery on his shoulder on Tuesday. They were able to do what they intended and it went well. They are now just waiting on some more healing to take place so that they can create a plan for rehab. Milena sounded incredibly tired, so pray that she will sleep at night. And pray that the healing process will be quick. We are seeing many of our friends and colleagues at the CBHD Conference today who are concerned and praying as well. He's definitely part of a far-reaching prayer chain.
From Ginger (Dan's co-worker)
Sent July 10, 2007
I talked with Milena and they've decided it best to not have visitors for a while until they see how his surgery goes and until he gets set up in rehab. He had some extended family that wanted to drive in this weekend, and Dan & Milena asked them to wait. She said she would keep me posted and let me know when they decide that everything is settled enough to have visitors.
From Ginger (Dan's co-worker)
July 9, 2007
Matthew and I visited Dan today. (Thanks to your donations, we took them a $100 Visa gift card to use for gas.)
When we arrived Dan had his laptop in front of him and his phone on his lap! He's hoping to use it just to keep his mind active. However, he did ask that he not receive email yet and he can't talk on the phone yet because he still just whispers. He said that he's just not ready. He said that he appreciated us collecting, filtering and replying to all the inquiries and notes.
It was good to see him. They were not able to do surgery on his shoulder as they had hoped and instead plan to do that on Tuesday. He seemed well, but weakened easily.
We shared with him about all the calls and emails we get at AUL about him. He seemed touched by that. He very much appreciates all our prayers and just asks that we keep praying. He said that once this surgery is over and he gets into a set rehab routine that he'll better know about a schedule for visitors.
We saw Milena for a little bit. She cried at the gift card and thanked everyone saying that we've done so much already. She was very tired, physically and emotionally, so continue to pray for strength and energy for her. She plans to take the girls to see Dan next weekend.
Below is the address to the hospital...he can receive mail there, and we think he'd enjoy getting some cards or ntes from everyone.
Patient Daniel McConchie
Froedtert Memorial Lutheran Hospital
9200 West Wisconsin Avenue
Milwaukee, WI 53226-3596
From Pastor Lee (Dan's pastor)
July 7, 2007
This morning Kurt Fuqua and I drove to Milwaukee to visit Dan McConchie.
He was moved to a regular room and we found him alert and communicative.
We spent about 40 minutes together, talking, reading Scripture and praying. He is certainly focused on trusting God in this difficulty and is trying to come to grips with his possible paralysis. He said that he is generally the kind of person who takes whatever life throws at him and keeps going, but that the thought of not walking again has been hard.
He is expecting surgery soon to repair his broken left clavicle. His ribs are crushed in several places, along with three vertebrae. He can only speak in a whisper so can't really talk on the phone.
We told him how many people were praying for him and his family, and when we prayed with him, we did so on your behalf. He expects to stay there for five or six weeks of recovery and rehab before going home. He won't be transferred to a facility nearer home.
I think if you would like to visit, Dan would probably welcome that, though we'd want to check with Milena first - at least for awhile. The trip took us about an hour and 20 min. one way from church. If you do think of going why not let me know and I'll act as something of a traffic cop so we can spread out our visits and be sure we're ok with Milena.
Be ye glad!
From Clarke Forsythe
July 4, 2007
Milena called me at 1:00pm CT on the 4th of July.
Dan is improving physically. He’s no longer dependent on a ventilator. He’s no longer dependent on a feeding tube. He is apparently eating by mouth. They hope to do the shoulder surgery by early next week, and they apparently will start respiratory therapy soon, in order to strengthen his lungs for the shoulder surgery.
He’s conscious and has been talking with Milena. (she was up there last night and today.) He’s only on Tylenol and doesn’t ask for any more pain relief.
But he’s suffering psychologically and disoriented, in part because he’s hallucinating, which is not unusual for someone who’s been sedated for nearly 2 weeks.
I HOPE to be able to go up to see him tomorrow afternoon.
From: Milena McConchie
July 2, 2007, 9:58pm
Since the surgery, Dan has been pretty much sedated because of all of his injuries as well as the ventilator. He was a little more alert today and the nurse told him about the accident. They are not sure if he will remember the conversation. He seems to be still somewhat disoriented.
He is breathing more on his own, which is definitely a step towards removing the ventilator but they don't know when.
He is also supposed to have surgery on his left shoulder to repair his broken clavicle some time this week (perhaps). Nothing has been scheduled yet. They want to make sure he is strong enough for the surgery.
Again, thank you for your prayers and e-mails. I will keep you posted. Again, sorry that I have not been able to respond to everybody individually. I have been torn in too many directions right now.
From: Clarke Forsythe
July 2, 2007
I just talked with Milena [Dan's wife] at her work about Dan's status at 5p tonight.
His recovery is going very slow.
They are hoping to get him off the ventilator soon.
Shoulder surgery this week, hopefully. Shoulder still swollen and they were hoping it would heal on its own, but apparently not.
He still has pneumonia.
Is sleeping a lot, and I'm sure they are keeping him sedated.
From: Dan McConchie's Church
June 29, 2007
VCL is prepared to accept financial donations on behalf of the McConchie's. If you would like to donate, please make your check out to "VCL" with "Dan McConchie" in the memo line. These funds will be used specifically to assist Dan and his family with both the immediate and long term financial burdens associated with Dan's injuries. (Please note that because this is a designated gift, it will not be tax deductible.)
Checks can be made out to:
Village Church of Lincolnshire
With "Daniel McConchie" in the memo line
And Mailed to:
Village Church of Lincolnshire
201 N. Riverwoods Road
Lake Forest, IL 60045
From: Clarke Forsythe
June 27, 2007
Dan was in surgery for over 6 hours last night...past midnight. The surgery went well and they were able to do what they intended to do. They put reinforcements on his spine which allowed them to prop him up today to promote healing in all the other areas (chest, shoulder, ribs, lungs, etc.) He is still sedated and will be for a while so that he can continue to heal. For that reason, they are still requesting no visitors.
The surgeon was pleased with the surgery, but when Milena asked if the success of the surgery would help Dan walk again, the doctor said that it would be a miracle. Milena told us to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers and to keep them coming.
From: Clarke Forsythe:
June 23, 2007, 7:14pm
Dan is at Froedtert Hospital & Medical College of Wisconsin, just 5-10 miles west of downtown Milwaukee. (pronounced Fray dirt).
This seems like a top facility, connected with the medical college of Wisconsin, and has about the only spinal cord injury center of its kind in Wisconsin 2 floors above where Dan is now.
The 3 of us met with the neurosurgeon, Dr. Jamie Baisden, who ran thru the results of the medical tests and short-term plans, and with the nursing staff, who were quite good.
Dan is in the Surgery ICU (SICU). He has multiple rib fractures on both sides and is dependent on a ventilator, and has chest tubes on both sides, which will postpone the possibility of surgery until at least Tuesday. They want to stabilize his breathing before doing the surgery. He also has a shoulder fracture. They want him sedated and calm to promote as much stabilization as possible before the surgery.
He has spinal fractures at T12 and L4. Unless God miraculously heals him, he will... be wheel-chair bound. He has full arm movement and I saw him move his arms. How much feeling he has below his navel may depend on
the surgery and rehab....
(His motorcycle had some accident with a car, but whether or not it was a true "hit and run," the driver ran off. Dan will likely remember nothing of the accident, but the police apparently have a witness of some kind. Dan was apparently wearing a helmet, because there was no talk of head trauma and his head and face seemed free of trauma.)
Most optimistic short-term scenario (absent a miraculous healing): if they do the surgery on Tuesday, and can start therapy 3-4 days later, he'll likely be there for 4 weeks before any chance of returning home.
From: Clarke Forsythe
June 23, 2007, 9:00am
The latest info is that he does have a serious lower spine injury. They did not do surgery last night, and his wife, Milena, was due to meet with the neurosurgeon this morning to decide what to do.
Due to privacy laws, Froedert will not give info over the phone to non-family members.
From: Clarke Forsythe
June 22, 2007, 8:45pm
I just learned within the past 15 minutes that Dan was on his motorcycle this afternoon and involved in a bad accident. Ginger Eppinette first informed me by phone, from a phone msg left by Dan's wife, Milena, who said that Dan had "a spinal injury."
I then made some calls and found out that Dan was taken to Condell Medical Center in Libertyville, IL, then helicoptered to Froedert Milwaukee Hospital (414-805-6717) for surgery.
I talked with someone at Condell who told me that he was "not good" but was "stable." He "will need surgery."
When I called Froedert just now, they said that all they could tell me was that he had just arrived and was being treated.
According to Ginger, Milena, who was with him in Condell, said his spine was compressed in 2 places and couldn't feel one of his legs.
Prayers for him & his family.Posted by: Lauren at June 25, 2007 1:17 PM
ditto's, my prayers are with Dan....Posted by: jasper at June 25, 2007 1:42 PM
I am familiar with Froederdt. Reputable and excellent. In fact, a friend of ours had a liver transplant there. Dan could not get better care anywhere. My thoughts and best wishes are with Dan and his family. I'm thankful to hear he has use of the upper half of his body and we must keep in mind that no one can predict anything with absolute certainty at this time.Posted by: Mary at June 25, 2007 6:14 PM
My prayers are with you Dan. Get well!Posted by: Heather4life at June 25, 2007 7:29 PM
Our love and prayers are with you and your family, we are so sorry for all you're going through.
Love, Mom and Dad A
Dan and Milena,
Just want you to know that I've got about everyone I know praying you through all of this. You are not alone in this - there are scores of people representing you before the Heavenly Father. Remember - God knows what we need even before we ask. Stay strong.
We love you,
(and Casey, Katy & Becca too)
PS - Thanks, Jill.Posted by: Tammy Arnouts at June 26, 2007 8:30 PM
Tammy, all, your notes are very kind. I'll be sure Dan reads them when I can.Posted by: Jill Stanek at June 26, 2007 10:22 PM
Dear Dan and Milena—
We love you very much �and are praying for you fervently. We've contacted lots of your former CBHD colleagues, Dan, so prayers are covering you from all corners! Milena, we're also here to help you and the girls in whatever ways we can.
May His peace and love surround all of you.
—LindaPosted by: Linda Bevington at June 26, 2007 10:54 PM
Dan and Milena,
Just want you to know that my prayers as well as those of many of my friends are with you and your girls. God knows and He promises to see you through. I pray for His strength for you during this hard time, and that His loving arms surround you and your family.
AmyPosted by: Amy Coxon at June 27, 2007 1:51 PM
Don't know if you remember us, but we are Tammy's sister and brother-in-law. We are so sorry to hear about your accident, but we are praying fervently for your complete recovery! Do not lose hope. God is capable of far more than we can ever imagine! We will continue to stay informed and keep the prayers in motion!
Leo & TarrahPosted by: Leo & Tarrah Wake at June 27, 2007 5:00 PM
We'll be praying for you as well Dan. Eric S. told me about the accident the other day.
Darryl & Karen Eberly
I'm just echoing these comments, Dan, Milena and girls. We're praying for you, from what looks like all corners of the globe. Milena, I echo Linda- whatever we can do to help when you're back home, PLEASE let us know. (meals, errands, or just a visit) since you're right down the road. Meanwhile, we love you and are liftinig you up in our prayers.Posted by: Charity at June 28, 2007 6:34 PM
Uh...who is he exactly?Posted by: Stephanie at June 28, 2007 7:50 PM
More prayers for Dan.Posted by: Heather4life at June 28, 2007 8:07 PM
Dan is the Vice President and Executive Director with Americans United for Life. He previously worked for Center for Bioethics and Human Dignity.Posted by: Jill Stanek at June 28, 2007 8:17 PM
Dan, Milena, you are in my prayers - our prayers collectively. Thank God that he is one, and that we together can pray as one, into the heart of God. With Linda I concur - please do not hesitate to let us know what you might need or want, and how we can further pray. We would like to be here as a support and encouragement to you in whatever way.
Oh. Well, I don't know what's going on with him, but I hope he'll be ok.Posted by: Stephanie at June 29, 2007 1:19 AM
Jill, I am sorry about what your friend is going through. I hope that he will make it through this okay.Posted by: Bethany at June 29, 2007 7:49 AM
Dan, Milena and girls; I am praying for you along with so many others around the world. You are on the prayer chain at Harvest Bible Chapel Lake Zurich, and many people ask me about you each day. As Charity and Linda said, we love you, and are lifting you up in prayer. Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you--we're all in the area and willing to help.Posted by: Beth at June 29, 2007 1:18 PM
I may not know you, and I may not see eye to eye with your views, but us Dan's gotta watch out for each other. I almost lost my uncle in a motorcycling accident, and I send my best wishes to you and your family. I can't pray for you, but you are in my thoughts, and I'm pulling for you, pal.
Be strong, my friend.Posted by: Skinhead Dan at June 30, 2007 4:19 AM
Dan and family, I am a friend of Charity Bishop and she directed me here to this site. I and my family will be praying for you. May God hold you and those you love in the palm of His hand. With prayers,
Happi in IL
Thanks to all for your kind words, prayers, and offers of support to the McConchie family. FYI, I'm mailing them all comments received to this point.Posted by: Jill Stanek at July 1, 2007 8:34 AM
Dan and Family,
If prayers and well wishes are what it takes then you're covered. Our "team" needs all of it's leaders. You can add my prayers also! God Bless and God Speed...
mary kayPosted by: MK at July 3, 2007 8:16 AM
Dan, miracles can and DO happen. I have received a few myself through the grace of God! I will pray for you to get one too! We are pulling for you.Posted by: Heather4life at July 3, 2007 9:19 AM
hang in there Dan, were praying for ya....Posted by: jasper at July 3, 2007 10:09 AM
I am sorry that I haven't posted anything on this site regarding your situation.
Lately, I and my family have been going through a number of trials.
Know that you will be on the rather substantial prayer list of Phoenix First Assembly.
God Bless You.Posted by: HisMan at July 3, 2007 7:43 PM
If there's one good thing, it is that he has no head injuries....arm movement is good. let's see in a few weeks, who knows...he may gain feeling in his legs....Posted by: jasper at July 3, 2007 9:26 PM
Dan, hope you are getting better!Posted by: Heather4life at July 5, 2007 5:59 PM
You're in the best of hands at Froederdt. We all continue to pull for you.Posted by: Mary at July 7, 2007 7:06 AM
My prayers and well wishes are with you and your family. I know God will take care of you and have you back in action soon.
encouraging progress.....this is good.Posted by: jasper at July 10, 2007 10:28 AM
Dan, still praying for you!Posted by: Heather4life at July 10, 2007 8:33 PM
I am so thankful to see that he is improving!Posted by: Bethany at July 13, 2007 5:17 PM
Dan, Hope you are getting well!!Posted by: Heather4life at July 17, 2007 9:20 PM
Oh what great news! How wonderful to be going home...so much more comforting than a hospital room. I hope that he will continue to regain feeling!Posted by: Bethany at July 18, 2007 4:03 PM
This is a Great sign. Praise be to God!Posted by: Heather4life at July 18, 2007 8:28 PM
Feeling, nothing more than feelings...
Amazing how something so small to all of us, can be so big to someone in Dan's situation!
Keep goin' forward Dan. You're in our prayers!Posted by: MK at July 19, 2007 6:20 AM
Dan, you look like a nice and sincere guy.
I'm sorry about your accident and can relate to your pain, having had osteomyelitis in two spinal vertebrae and the disk between. Nerve stuff can be *amazing* as far as pain.
Good luck to you!
DougPosted by: Doug at August 14, 2007 2:45 PM
Wow, he is going through so much. I really hope that he will continue to improve over time. I hate that he has to go through such pain, with the narcotics not easing the pain well enough. :(
Dan, we are thinking about you and praying for you. You are an inspiration, and I don't even know you.
Still praying for you Dan! You will make it.Posted by: Heather at August 22, 2007 5:45 PM
we're still praying for you, hope you feel better in the months to come.Posted by: jasper at August 22, 2007 6:51 PM
do not know whether this will work for you. Check it out first with your neurologist because pain can be therapeutically healthy and promote nerve regeneration - but at times, it is only pain.
Try some D-phenylalanine (at times also a mix of D,L -phenylalanine). This amino acid blocks the destruction of endorphins, the body's usual severe-pain killer molecules. A lady with severe pain of peripheral nerves found no relief until she tried this. It worked amazingly well and quickly. [Her pain was a side-effect from chemo and radiation. This is used in the last stages of multiple sclerosis by a doctor in Australia. So, I have no idea if it should assist you.]
Good luck in whatever helps ...............
JohnPosted by: John McDonell at August 23, 2007 7:31 AM
Dan, it just sounds like things are getting better for you! The Lord is working!Posted by: Heather at August 31, 2007 1:11 PM
"I can now feel my legs and contract muscles all the way down to my calves! The muscles have started tightening first along the bone are slowly gathering strength with the daily contraction workouts I put them through. It seems that I get a little more feeling and function each day"
wow! Great news!Posted by: jasper at August 31, 2007 1:54 PM
Praise the Lord!!Posted by: Bethany at August 31, 2007 4:55 PM
From his face I have to think Dan is a heck of a nice guy.
DougPosted by: Doug at September 1, 2007 8:18 PM