On the day after the Academy Awards, here's this food for thought from a column by Jeffrey Kuhner of The Washington Times:
... For decades, Hollywood has been waging a war against Middle America. The country's supposed best films are honored at the Academy Awards. Yet, behind the glamour and artificial hype, the juvenile hosts and silly obsession with the stars' fashion, one need only look at this year's top contenders to see the twisted values being peddled in Tinseltown....
Revolutionary Road is an assault on suburban family life, rationalizing abortion and adultery. The Wrestler is about a pathetic aging professional wrestler, who has abandoned his wife and daughter in pursuit of fame and fortune. He can't hold down a regular job and spends his time in a strip club. Milk celebrates the life of the first openly gay politician, Harvey Milk.The only movie that espouses genuine romantic love between a man and a woman and the enduring values of heroism, self-sacrifice and family honor is Slum Dog Millionaire. And here's the catch: It's not American. The film is an Indian production with an Indian cast, depicting a couple's desperate struggle to survive in the harsh slums of Mumbai. The movie has become a worldwide box office smash. Hollywood sees its recognition of the film as a sign of its multicultural sensitivity. In fact, it is writing its own obituary....
The movie's huge popularity shows that America's decaying culture is being eclipsed - other countries are becoming better at the entertainment business. Increasingly many people are disgusted by Hollywood's celebration of violence, promiscuity, abortion, homosexuality, drugs and greed.Slum Dog Millionaire is not a particularly exceptional film. Yes, it's well-directed, has some very powerful scenes and the love story is gripping and touching. But it is the kind of film Hollywood routinely produced 50 or even 40 years ago: meticulously crafted, anchored in eternal themes and seriously written - dramas, such as those starring the likes of Bette Davis, Elizabeth Taylor or Richard Burton, which portrayed a morally ordered universe pitting good versus evil. Today, such films are an oasis in the cultural desert; hence, the movie's appeal.
Since the 1960s, the United States has faced an onslaught from militant secularist forces. The most successful revolutionary of the 20th century was not Soviet leader Vladimir Lenin or Nazi dictator Adolf Hitler, but Hugh Hefner. The founder of Playboy did more than simply publish a popular smut magazine. He established the "Playboy philosophy," which championed the sexual revolution, personal liberation and the destruction of the nuclear family. Its doctrine can be boiled down to one principle: "If it feels good, do it." This individualistic hedonism not only dominates Hollywood. It dominates our society.
Rather than ushering in a new utopia, it has unleashed a sea of misery. Our culture has become coarsened, cheapening the value and dignity of human life. Legalized abortion has led to the murder of nearly 50 million unborn babies. Sexually transmitted diseases, such as AIDS, have resulted in the deaths of millions. Divorce has sky-rocketed. The family has broken down. Pornography is ubiquitous, especially on the Internet. Out-of-wedlock births and teenage illegitimacy rates have soared. Drugs and gang violence plague our inner cities - and are spreading into our suburbs.
More adolescents are engaging in sex with one another and with adults. Pedophilia is growing. Gay civil unions are supported by a majority of Americans. Attitudes toward polygamy are softening. Homosexuals, bisexuals and the "transgender community" are part of the mainstream. Permissiveness and perversion are now rampant.
Traditional America is dying. Whether Hollywood is a primary cause or a symptom is irrelevant. The fact is that the dysfunctional world it reflects on the big screen is increasingly a social reality....
Comments:
zut alors! A movie celebrating the life of an openly gay homosexual! Those commie homo-lovin sons of guns in Hollywood...... ;)
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 12:10 PMwow, what a great column...
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 12:38 PM"Traditional America is dying"
Oh, cry me a river. I see plenty of wonderful healthy and happy Americans every day.
Posted by: Hal at February 23, 2009 12:49 PMOh, cry me a river. I see plenty of wonderful healthy and happy Americans every day.
Posted by: Hal at February 23, 2009 12:49 PM
Not according to your president Nobama. All he ever saw was poor downtrodden Americans that had no hope and no future. (Unless they were sitting at one of his $32,000.00 per meal fundraisers.)
Posted by: Sandy at February 23, 2009 12:53 PMI see plenty of wonderful healthy and happy Americans every day.
Maybe we're healthy and happy in part because we boycott Hollywood. I don't go to the cinema. I don't watch the self-glorification of the Emmys, the Oscars, etc. I don't watch pay-per-view movies and I don't buy DVDs. I refuse to spend my money on that garbage.
Posted by: Fed Up at February 23, 2009 12:59 PMI'm healthy and happy Hal. And I LOVE movies!
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 1:01 PMI'm healthy and happy too. Don't see as many movies as I'd like. Did see Slum Dog, thought is was okay. Want to see Milk, not too aware of the others.
Posted by: Hal at February 23, 2009 1:06 PMBAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWL more, conservatives. You people have been writing this nation's obituary for decades. If you hate the land of the free so much, why don't you leave? Iran is run by a patriarchal religious leader; I bet you'd love it there. Or how about sunny Saudi Arabia? They don't even let women drive, let alone exercise reproductive rights. You'd fit right in. No permissive secular culture there!
If you're so sure we're doomed without forced religion, why not get out and leave us to our doom? Go enjoy your oppressive theocracy. It's waiting for you. What are you waiting for?
Posted by: reality at February 23, 2009 1:40 PMJill, I know it's your blog and you have the right to go off-topic, but I always sigh a really tired, frustrated sigh when blogs that are supposed to be about one topic start going into another, as though the people who are reading the blog for the main topic are supposed to agree with the off-topic posts. I love reading your pro-life-related posts, and abortion in Revolutionary Road is on-topic, but what on earth does Harvey Milk have to do with any of this? Homosexuality in society is a totally different subject and I don't see how it would connect, as it's not like gay people are conceiving babies and aborting them.
Posted by: Marauder at February 23, 2009 1:55 PMMarauder, it doesn't appear you read the entire post. Did you read paragraphs 6 onward?
Posted by: Jill Stanek at February 23, 2009 1:58 PMBoohoo,ifyoudon'tliketoday'smoviesdon'twatchthem!
Posted by: Martha at February 23, 2009 2:10 PM
"Traditional America is dying"
Oh, cry me a river. I see plenty of wonderful healthy and happy Americans every day.
And there are many miserable Americans I see in my neighborhood everyday embroiled in too much "baby Daddy" drama...
Posted by: Pansy Moss at February 23, 2009 2:10 PM"If you're so sure we're doomed without forced religion, why not get out and leave us to our doom? Go enjoy your oppressive theocracy. It's waiting for you. What are you waiting for? "
Reality, how about we split it down the middle, with traditional americans on one side and secular progressives' on the other. Then let's see which side Americans flock to.
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 2:27 PMReality, how about we split it down the middle, with traditional americans on one side and secular progressives' on the other. Then let's see which side Americans flock to.
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 2:27 PM
Ummm.... hasn't this happened already. You "traditional americans" have that swath through the middle of the country! We have all the rest.... including Washington!
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 2:34 PMI only watched the last three awards (and hadn't seen any of the movies nominated in the big categories) but my husband and I both rolled our eyes at Sean Penn's "speech." What a bunch of hoo-haa.
On a good note, now I want to see Slumdog Millionaire.
Posted by: Kristen at February 23, 2009 2:56 PMWe have all the rest.... including Washington!
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 2:34 PM
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You can keep Washington! yuck!
Posted by: Chris Arsenault at February 23, 2009 3:01 PMYou know I meant Wasington DC, right Chris? Alrighty then.... hopefully we'll do just that!
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 3:06 PMtake California too....
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 3:07 PMReality, how about we split it down the middle, with traditional americans on one side and secular progressives' on the other. Then let's see which side Americans flock to.
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 2:27 PM
Isn't this what the civil war was about - the South wanting to secede (sp) from the Union and make their own country? Hmm. Maybe we should revisit.
take California too....
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 3:07 PM
Thanks, we've already got that too!
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 3:31 PMThe conservative idea that things were so much better before has always been hard for me to understand. We have made so much progress in making our society more conducive to human happiness, certainly as compared to "traditional America," which demanded conformity and marginalized outsiders.
I am thrilled to have witnessed an explosion of unprecedented opportunities for women and minorities in my lifetime -- not to mention an end to some of the most severe forms of discrimination and sanctioned hatefulness.
I am glad I have had the freedom to marry for love, rather than feeling forced to marry because it is expected or because it is the only way to get sex or because it is the primary way for a woman to obtain status and financial comfort. I am glad to witness people's increasing freedom to marry members of the same sex or of a different race.
I am relieved to live in an America where law enforcement is increasingly likely to take rape and domestic violence seriously, and where marital rape is no longer considered legal.
I love the fact people can walk away more freely from unhappy marriages -- which can often cause their children as much pain, or more, than divorce.
I am happy that in most places, people are freer to choose their religious expression without the same risk of social ostracism as in the past.
It has been a pleasure to see the destigmatization of mental illness beginning to unfold, along with more integrated and respectful treatment of people with physical and mental disabilities -- many of whom would have been packed off to institutions in "traditional America."
The growing national awareness of pedophilia has been painful, but a necessary step in protecting our children.
While I know this will be a controversial statement on this blog, I think children are in fact more protected and valued than ever before. I particularly rejoice in the waning of punitive and shaming disciplinary styles.
Those are just some of the things that give me a warm, fuzzy feeling. That doesn't mean things are perfect. I am not a huge fan of the enormous popularity of pornography that degrades women (as opposed to pornography that doesn't) -- but then the average "I Love Lucy" episode was pretty degrading too. There are certainly many other problems too. But on the whole I see a more honest, life-affirming society that allows for opportunity and individual self-expression of people from all demographics.
BAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWL more, conservatives. You people have been writing this nation's obituary for decades. If you hate the land of the free so much, why don't you leave? Iran is run by a patriarchal religious leader; I bet you'd love it there. Or how about sunny Saudi Arabia? They don't even let women drive, let alone exercise reproductive rights. You'd fit right in. No permissive secular culture there!
If you're so sure we're doomed without forced religion, why not get out and leave us to our doom? Go enjoy your oppressive theocracy. It's waiting for you. What are you waiting for?
Posted by: reality at February 23, 2009 1:40 PM
Oh reality, get a grip.
You liberals are the one and only group who have doomed this country since your 1960's free love, do it if it feels good mentality. Your liberal quackery has turned our tax funded schools into nothing more than training grounds for more liberal quackery.
How many abortions out of this "fee love" society has my hard earned tax money had to fund?
Your oppressive government idealogy is turning this county into a socialist nation, which is such a contradiction to what you just stated.
Your liberal "everyone deserves to own a home" mantra just cost us billions and billions of dollars that now "we" conservatives will be paying for.
That's oppressive. And gee I can't wait to see how many more oppressive "stimulus" bills will be passed mandating I pay more in taxes for those who choose to live so "freely"
Posted by: Sandy at February 23, 2009 3:33 PM
Prochoicer, wonderfully said @ 3:33pm
Posted by: asitis at February 23, 2009 3:50 PMProchoicer at 3:33, that was beautiful.
If we're talking heroism, I think that's what "Milk" was all about. Being heroic is about standing up for what you think is right, even when everyone tries to put you down. In the movie he gives hope to a teenage boy who calls him saying he wants to commit suicide because his parents are sending him away to "get straight"- from Harvey Milk, that boy finds inspiration to keep going. That's heroic to me.
Harvey Milk stood up against the rampant discrimination of Prop 6 (threatening to take homosexual teachers out of schools for fear that they're "recruiting" kids to be gay). Now there's a Harvey Milk school in New York City, which is a safe haven for gay teens who had to leave public school because they were so tormented by their peers just for being the way they are. Harvey Milk is a hero to me (a straight woman, in case anyone was wondering).
Didn't see the other movies yet. Want to see Rev. Road though, just to see Kate and Leo together again :)
PC 3:33PM
While I certainly want to see mental illness destigmatized, I don't agree treatment is any better or more humane.
Granted, early institutions could be barbaric and people were deposited in them for convenience.
However, the closing of these institutions put mentally ill people on the street and into society with absolutely no means of coping.
While there was boasting of how the big state hospitals were closing, no one was asking what happens to people in these institutions. Where do they go? Who cares for them? Can they even care for themselves?
People who should be institutionalized have not been, posing a serious danger to be the mentally ill and society as a whole.
So many of those lost souls you see on the street were once in institutions. Is life on the street any more humane?
I would think making institutions more humane was the answer. Regrettably there are people who belong in them, and are best cared for and safer in institutions.
It would also provide a haven for those who truly want to be admitted and cared for. All too often families cannot find the care, shelter, and supervision their mentally ill loved ones so desperately need.
"take California too....
Posted by: Jasper at February 23, 2009 3:07 PM
Thanks, we've already got that too!"
Good, you can pay for all the defaulted mortgages there too..
Marauder: "Homosexuality in society is a totally different subject and I don't see how it would connect, as it's not like gay people are conceiving babies and aborting them."
Jill Stanek: "Marauder, it doesn't appear you read the entire post. Did you read paragraphs 6 onward?"
I read them and I agree with Marauder. A film rationalizing the killing of one's children would be sad, but the message of MILK seems to be, simply, tolerance of others. Abortion and homosexuality don't belong in the same paragraph, let alone the same level of tragedy.
Posted by: bmmg39 at February 23, 2009 4:19 PMMary,
Looks like we might agree on this too. I certainly didn't mean to imply that just shutting institutions a la President Reagan is the way to go, and yes, some people need to be institutionalized. But I think the decision makers and treatment providers are now more inclined to look for the least restrictive options, and to seek community integration whenever possible. Not saying the system is perfect -- but I believe it is improved.
P.S. I may not be back to this thread since this evening and coming week promise to be a doozy. If I disappear, have a lovely week.
Posted by: Prochoicer at February 23, 2009 4:19 PMOn the plus side, I've finally found a movie I want to see... Slumdog Millionaire looks like a good pick. (Hubby is over-the-top sappy, so I'll load up on the Kleenex for him. He can't watch Extreme Home Makeover without going through half a box.)
I came to the conclusion that Pro Abortionists, hate Anti-Abortionists, and vice versa more than they would love to find a solution to the cuase of their alleged problem. I don't think any Pro Abortionists or Anti-Abortionists would essentially be happy if as of tomorrow every single woman on the planet magically inserted an IUD, and for the rest of the 21st century, there weren't one abortion, nor one conceived unwanted baby.
Seriously, I may be wrong; but what 'issue' would Pro-Abortionists have to hate Anti-Abortionists, or vice versa, then?
So I finally conclude; that if both sides are well aware that they could focus on working together and providing opportunities or funding for every single poor or rich woman on the planet to be provided with contraception to avoid the conception of any unwanted baby; and they CHOOSE NOT TO DO SO; because they prefer bickering and playing the blame each other hate game....
Well, then I wonder: QUI BONO???
Lara JMCSwan
Posted by: Lara Braveheart at February 23, 2009 4:45 PMElisabeth, it is good! But I'll warn you the first bit is tough to watch. But in the end, I understood why it was necessary.
Hope you enjoy the movie!
Jill - Yes, I did, but I still don't see the connection. AIDS is a terrible disease and I think promiscuity is a sign of some serious problems, but homosexuality on its own? I can see where someone would have a religious objection to homosexuality, but I don't think the concepts of men who are attracted to other men and women who are attracted to other women are related to abortion.
Harvey Milk was far from a perfect person, but when it came to gay rights, he just wanted openly gay people to be able to have the same rights that straight people and closeted gay people had. He wanted them to be able to go to bars and get a few drinks with friends without getting arrested or beaten up, to not have to worry about having their jobs taken away from them because of factors that were unrelated to their jobs. He didn't want to destroy the family or Middle America. He was proud of his military service (Navy, lieutenant junior grade), he loved his country, and he didn't want other gay kids to have to hide things and feel miserable the way he had.
bmmg39: Thanks. :)
Posted by: Marauder at February 23, 2009 4:52 PMWas Lara's post at 4:45 written by one of those nonsense post generators like the one Rae was using the other night?
Posted by: Barney at February 23, 2009 4:54 PMPC 4:19PM
Institutions were closing long before Reagan, as early as 1955 with the arrival of psychiatric drugs. A major one in my hometown, a small city in itself, began the process in the late 60's.
This was a policy known as "Deinstitutionalization" and involved moving severely mentally ill people into society and shutting down state hospitals.
This was further defined by President Jimmy Carter's Commission on Mental Health as treating mental illness in the least restrictive setting.
The intentions were very noble. The trouble is good intentions are what pave the road to hell. Ideally, the mentally ill would be integrated into society, there would be halfway houses, community care, etc.
This policy varied from state to state.
In what amounted to a huge social experiment, people with major psychiatric illness, brain damage, retardation, autism, and dementia were discharged without the services and medication supervision they needed. Closing the hospitals also meant no services for those who would need them down the road
Consequently approximatel 2.2 million psychiatric patients are not receiving the care and supervision they need.
I knew one elderly woman who had been in my hometown institution for years. Good or bad, the institution was her home. It was her world and her friends.
Closing it only meant shuttling that poor soul from one nursing home to another until she finally died.
So I finally conclude; that if both sides are well aware that they could focus on working together and providing opportunities or funding for every single poor or rich woman on the planet to be provided with contraception to avoid the conception of any unwanted baby; and they CHOOSE NOT TO DO SO; because they prefer bickering and playing the blame each other hate game....
Well, then I wonder: QUI BONO???
Lara JMCSwan
Posted by: Lara Braveheart at February 23, 2009 4:45 PM
Ummmm......Free or low cost birth control is available everywhere. Condoms can be purchased at every speedy mart or gas station in your neighborhood.
I do believe that a significant amount of women do get pregnat while on birth control because they are too lazy to take a pill every morning, or put on a condom, or replace the nuvaring or the patch in a timely manner, or insert a diaphram when needed.
How about not having promiscuous sex with every man a woman meets?
I do believe the IUD does cause abortion. It does not allow a fertilized egg to implant into the uterus.
Buzzer goes off..............try again.
Posted by: Sandy at February 23, 2009 4:59 PMAM said,
Being heroic is about standing up for what you think is right, even when everyone else puts you down.
I think that describes the prolife movement very well. :)
How did Harvey Milk die? Never heard of him.
Posted by: Carla at February 23, 2009 6:53 PMI am relieved to live in an America where law enforcement is increasingly likely to take ... domestic violence seriously
I must be living in a different America, Prochoicer. Law enforcement may be taking more reports due to stricter laws, but the judicial system is still failing victims by dropping charges in most cases or settling for wrist slaps.
I am happy that in most places, people are freer to choose their religious expression without the same risk of social ostracism as in the past.
Unless, of course, you happen to be a Christian, in which case you can forget about being ostracized. You can expect to be attacked.
It has been a pleasure to see the destigmatization of mental illness beginning to unfold, along with more integrated and respectful treatment
Mary already hopped on this one. Destigmatized, yes. More integrated treatment, I think not. More legal rights for psych patients? Yes, but that's far different than respectful treatment.
I think children are in fact more protected and valued than ever before.
Strongly disagree with that one. Child abuse is epidemic. It's part and parcel of the culture of death.
But on the whole I see a more honest, life-affirming society that allows for opportunity and individual self-expression of people from all demographics.
Life-affirming? Not unless you consider abortion, euthanasia, and assisted suicide affirmations of life.
Carla, he was assassinated.
Posted by: Erin at February 23, 2009 8:35 PMThank you, Erin. That is horrible.
Posted by: Carla at February 23, 2009 8:38 PMSexual "freedom" is used as a tool for distraction by socialists and other statists. Those who claim to promote rights based on behavioral choices, simultaneously seek to oppress the rights of those who disagree with them. Their defense is always "you are a bunch of Nazis no different that terrorists."
They force brainwashing material on children in kindergarten to break down the natural order of things. My children did not need to be told that anything but a man and woman together is unnatural. I did not have to tell them this. They just knew.
Yet it seems every movie targeted at children has a "gay is normal" scene in it.
What's next? Promoting "alternative lifestyles" as "green" because they do not produce children which drain resources?
I don't watch the Oscars. I won't let my children watch them. It is three hours of Hollywood celebrating the abnormal. It is very rare for a truly great performance to which these days. It is usually the most politically correct.
I must admit, Heath Ledger deserved the statue. He was scary good as the Joker. I long way from his comic styling in A Knight's Tale.
Fed Up, what do you mean by attacked? Did some attack you as a Christian? Verbally or Physically? Symbolically?
Posted by: prettyinpink at February 23, 2009 8:59 PM"Sexual "freedom" is used as a tool for distraction by socialists and other statists. Those who claim to promote rights based on behavioral choices, simultaneously seek to oppress the rights of those who disagree with them."
I don't follow this at all. If you don't want sexual freedom, don't have it. I don't care, but don't try to take those rights away from the rest of us. Who's trying to oppress your rights?
only time I watched the Oscars lately was when "Our Town" from Cars and "That's How you Know" from Enchanted were up for Best Song. Both Lost. And I think I watched one year when they had a montage with showing past winners of Best Movies. Most of the junk that Hollywood produces now is inferior to the movies they had in the beginning. There will never be another Classic like Casablanca or Gone with the Wind.
Posted by: LizFromNebraska at February 23, 2009 10:43 PMIf an actor in his or her acceptance speech had spoken out in favor of traditional marriage it would have been condemned as "hate" and his or her career would be over..... or at the very least they would be doing serious damage control.
However Sean Penn can in his speach condemn people for "intolerance" and calls people against gay marriage "shameful".... yet he obviously has no tolerance for people who have different beliefs than he does.
And he made some comment about how great it was that people voted for an "elegant" President...... hello...... BO has said he is against gay marriage also!! But its ok because BO is totally left in every other respect.
All four candidates in the last election were in favor of traditional marriage..... BO, Biden, McCain and Palin.
But its ok for BO to be against it! Give me a break..... the hypocracy is ridiculous.
Good for Bill OReilly for bringing this up on Fox. OF course, about the only place its being discussed is on conservative shows. The mainstream media loves people like Penn because they are as far left as he is.
Posted by: Joanne at February 23, 2009 10:48 PMHowever Sean Penn can in his speach condemn people for "intolerance" and calls people against gay marriage "shameful".... yet he obviously has no tolerance for people who have different beliefs than he does."
It is "shameful" to be against gay marriage. I thought you guys believed in objective right and wrong. Denying the right to marry to gay partners is objectively wrong and anyone who believes otherwise should be called out on it. No reason to tolerate evil.
Conservatives are always talking about the the so-called sexual revolution as though it introduced promiscuity, hedonism, STDs, abortion, illegitimacy, godlessness, and moral decline etc to America and the world.
In fact, these things have been quite common throughout world history, and always will be.
The ancient Romans made people like Hugh Hefner, Allen Ginsberg, and Jane Fonda etc, look positively prim by comparison. Abortion is nothing new and has existed for thousands of years, and infanticide was alot more common than most people realize.
Poor women were forced to abortion routinely in the past, and poor,large families lived in abject misery in America.
The fanatically puritanical and pathalogically sexually repressed Anthony Comstock persecuted many innocent people and made their lives miserable in the 19th century.
Yes, trashy movies are made today, but to say that there is some kind of sinister Hollywood plot to corrupt America is just plain laughable. Hollywood is out to make money and it provides entertainment,good and bad, period. And just because conservatives find the subject matter of some movies objectionable does not mean that these films are automatically immoral and dangerous.
But there are also plenty of serious and
thoughtful films being produced today, and innocuous ones too.
It's totally unrealistic to expect every film, TV program or whatever to be blandly wholesome. And if conservatives think that they have both the right and duty to ban every form of entertainment which they find offensive, they are deluding themselves.
If the government is going to ban things, who should decide what is acceptable or not? Which group of people should get to decide? Where do we draw the line? What is offensive to one person is not necessarily offensive to another. And if a certain group of people is going to get the power to ban things, where do they stop? It's a slippery slope to oppression.
It is "shameful" to be against gay marriage. I thought you guys believed in objective right and wrong. Denying the right to marry to gay partners is objectively wrong and anyone who believes otherwise should be called out on it. No reason to tolerate evil.
Posted by: Hal at February 23, 2009 10:53 PM
Most if not all people who oppose gay marriage do so on religious beliefs. Christians, Mormons and possibly other religions do not agree with it.
My faith is Christianity and so I oppose it on those grounds. Shame on Sean Penn for being intolerant of people of other faiths!
And by the way, Hal, your hero BO believes in this "evil" as well. It's the only thing I agree with him on.
To be honest I think "BO" and the others are pro-gay marriage, they just had to make some concessions come election time.
Come on, do you really believe that he is honestly against gay marriage??
Posted by: prettyinpink at February 23, 2009 11:39 PMRight on, Berger! The liberals are the cause of all of the worlds problems, including the craptastic movies lately!!
Posted by: prettyinpink at February 23, 2009 11:43 PMAnd if conservatives think that they have both the right and duty to ban every form of entertainment which they find offensive, they are deluding themselves.
Did someone mention banning films on this thread? I missed that.
If the government is going to ban things, who should decide what is acceptable or not?
Ask the libs who are calling for reinstatement of the fairness doctrine.
PiP- My comment above wasn't about me specifically. I was referring to the attack on Christianity in general in this country. I'd rather not mention personal attacks on me as a Christian because I suspect others who read and comment on this blog have endured much more than I have.
No problem, Fed Up. I'm just wondering. I know that in our society, skeptics or contrarians are vocally anti-religion but since I'm not specially religious I'm never sure when humor becomes slander to you all or where some jibes or arguments become attacks.
You know? It may be a personal thing- everyone has their own limits. So I was wondering if you were referring to any specific incidences that's all :)
PiP, I appreciate your sensitivity in trying to clarify humor vs personal attack. I was referring to things that happen offline, not comments on this blog. I am certain that my experiences offline pale in comparison to what others here have been through.
Posted by: Fed Up at February 24, 2009 2:42 AMBO has said he is against gay marriage also!!
Posted by: Joanne at February 23, 2009 10:48 PM
BO isn't "against" gay marriage. He is against the federal government telling churches that they must allow gays to get married in their church. Joe Biden spoke to this as well in the debate: That he and Obama are all for homosexual couples to have ALL the same civil rights that merried couples have, but that marriage should be something left to the churches to decide, based on their faith. Sounds pretty tolerant to me!
Here's Obabma's position:
Opposes CA Prop. 8, one-man-one-woman marriage. (Jul 2008)
Being gay or lesbian is not a choice. (Nov 2007)
Decisions about marriage should be left to the states. (Oct 2007)
Homosexuality no more immoral than heterosexuality. (Oct 2007)
Ok to expose 6-year-olds to gay couples; they know already. (Sep 2007)
Has any marriage broken up because two gays hold hands? (Aug 2007)
We need strong civil unions, not just weak civil unions. (Aug 2007)
Legal rights for gays are conferred by state, not by church. (Aug 2007)
Disentangle gay rights from the word "marriage". (Aug 2007)
Gay marriage is less important that equal gay rights. (Aug 2007)
Gay rights movement is somewhat like civil rights movement. (Aug 2007)
Let each denominations decide on recognizing gay marriage. (Jul 2007)
Pass ENDA and expand hate crime legislation. (Mar 2007)
Opposed 1996 Illinois DOMA bill. (Mar 2007)
Supports health benefits for gay civil partners. (Oct 2006)
Opposes gay marriage; supports civil union & gay equality. (Oct 2006)
Marriage not a human right; non-discrimination is. (Oct 2004)
Include sexual orientation in anti-discrimination laws. (Jul 1998)
However Sean Penn can in his speach condemn people for "intolerance" and calls people against gay marriage "shameful".... yet he obviously has no tolerance for people who have different beliefs than he does.
Posted by: Joanne at February 23, 2009 10:48 PM
No tolerance for people with different beliefs than he has? You mean people who believe in heterosexual marriage? I'm pretty sure Penn beleives in that... being married to Robin Wright Penn! You can be married yourself and still believe that gays should be able to "marry" as well and have the same rights that married couples have. This has no impact on your marriage.
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 6:42 AM
My faith is Christianity and so I oppose it on those grounds. Shame on Sean Penn for being intolerant of people of other faiths!
Posted by: Joanne at February 23, 2009 11:22 PM
Joanne, you can believe gay marriage (and homosexuality in general for that matter)is wrong because of your faith. No one is saying that you are wrong to do so. What they are saying is wrong (i.e."shameful" and "intolerant") is when you attempt to impose your own religious beliefs on others.
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 6:57 AMJust like Sean Penn is doing?
Posted by: Carla at February 24, 2009 6:59 AMHow so Carla?
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 7:00 AMConservatives are always talking about the the so-called sexual revolution as though it introduced promiscuity, hedonism, STDs, abortion, illegitimacy, godlessness, and moral decline etc to America and the world.
Posted by: Robert Berger at February 23, 2009 11:02 PM
No, didn't introduce it, just made it acceptable in society.
You don't need religion to inform you that homosexual relations are wrong. Biology can prove that.
Posted by: Eileen #2 at February 24, 2009 7:53 AMKristen, good point @ 7:47 AM.
Posted by: Eileen #2 at February 24, 2009 7:56 AMYou don't need religion to inform you that homosexual relations are wrong. Biology can prove that.
Posted by: Eileen #2 at February 24, 2009 7:53 AM
Oh REALLY Eileen? Just because it doesn't produce offspring doesn't mean "science says it's it's wrong". Nice try!
Gotta go, but I'll be back.
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 8:01 AMOh REALLY Eileen? Just because it doesn't produce offspring doesn't mean "science says it's it's wrong". Nice try!
Gotta go, but I'll be back.
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 8:01 AM
Not science - mother nature. There are plenty of things science says are right that are completely, totally, and utterly wrong.
Posted by: Kristen at February 24, 2009 8:52 AMOh do pray tell Kristen, how does "Mother Nature" tell us that homosexuality is "wrong"?
Posted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 11:28 AM"Mother Nature" has shown us lots of gay behavior in other species of animals and in fact some people hypothesize that homosexuality might arise from factors occuring through natural processes like embryonic development. ARen't you in the "just cause its found in nature doesn't mean its right for us" crowd?
Posted by: PiP at February 24, 2009 12:58 PMPosted by: asitis at February 24, 2009 11:28 AM
Do I REALLY have to explain the birds and the bees to you asitis?
Posted by: Kristen at February 25, 2009 10:59 AMPiP, It's been awhile since I've had biology of any kind but I do remember some animals being asexual and could therefore be either male or female when it came to procreation. Humans however, aren't like that.
Posted by: Kristen at February 25, 2009 11:42 AMI do believe that Mr. Penn was being hypocritical in his speech, although he certainly was not self-aware enough to realize he had done it...
It is all well and good for people who support certain ideas, such as homosexual marriage, to voice their support of that idea. I don't agree, but that is the wondrous part of living in a free society. However, that does NOT give that person the right to tell me that my opinion is less valid than theirs.
And as for voting, I expect all people to vote their conscience. Only in that way, with open and honest discussion of the issues, rather than ignorant lambasting of those who view the issue differently, can any true dialogue be reached.
But, unfortunately, more people would rather ridicule those with deeply held religious convictions than attempt to come to any true understanding.
Posted by: Elisabeth at February 25, 2009 11:47 AMKristen,
Posted by: prettyinpink at February 25, 2009 11:53 AMasitis, maybe you need to take a refresher course in anatomy and physiology -- the parts don't fit.
Posted by: Eileen at February 25, 2009 11:55 AMDo I REALLY have to explain the birds and the bees to you asitis?
Posted by: Kristen at February 25, 2009 10:59 AM
You're forgetting Kristen that I already said that just because it doesn't produce offspring doesn't mean it's wrong.
Posted by: asitis at February 25, 2009 11:57 AMasitis, maybe you need to take a refresher course in anatomy and physiology -- the parts don't fit.
Posted by: Eileen at February 25, 2009 11:55 AM
No, I'm good. But maybe you need to take a course on human sexuality to see that they do!
That should suffice ;)
Posted by: asitis at February 25, 2009 2:20 PMElisabeth,
I really liked what you said and how you said it. Thank you!!
I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don't know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.
Elaina
Posted by: Elaina at February 26, 2009 8:02 AM
