Mom says to expect “beauty in imperfections” of Down syndrome
by Kelli
What I have learned in the last 3 years is what to really expect when having a child with Down Syndrome. Someone once gave me a book about what to expect, I read a few chapters and threw it away. I hated it. Most books and pamphlets are so outdated the material is beyond depressing….
Some people still don’t see the beauty in a child like ours….
I have learned there is beauty in “imperfections”. I don’t believe Ollie is one bit imperfect but in the eyes of many she is. There is great beauty in all her God given pieces. Her crooked pinky fingers, the light spots in her eyes, the way she smiles…. Her tiny little heart beat that doesn’t beat quite as it should but it’s healthy – oh that heart beat is precious. The way she smiles with her whole body – I can truly see her smile from the back of her head she wears it so well!
I have learned that God’s plans are always best and in time they always make sense. I have learned that unanswered prayers are often answered – just not as you have requested. I have learned that having a sibling with Down Syndrome doesn’t limit your other children but makes them better, more compassionate, more understanding, more open hearted, more open to the world in general….
Fear is abolished, God has prevailed! Every day I thank the good Lord for that single extra chromosome that has made all the difference!
~ Annie Reid, discussing what she has learned from her daughter Ollie Faith, who was prenatally diagnosed with Down syndrome and is now three years old, The House That Jade Built via NetworkedBlogs.com, April 23
Jill Stanek is a nurse turned speaker, columnist and blogger, a national figure in the effort to protect both preborn and postborn innocent human life.
When I was young, I felt fearful and unsure of myself around people with a disability or a difference. Once I got over myself, I realized what is there to fear? Having my mind and heart opened wider to a new experience? Seeing beyond the superficial? Being stretched to love my neighbor?
Sweet picture, clearly they adore each other. LL <3
Cute kid. I think I mentioned before that some people in my immediate family look upon “retards” especially, children with Down Syndrome, with hatred and contempt and think they “should” be aborted. This attitude sickens me, especially since they claim to be Christians.
The murderous suppression of persons with Down Syndrome and other “defects” is the most egregious violation of human rights in our culture.
Beautiful! I love her perspective. She sounds like a wonderful mom.
Wonderful story ! What a cutie ! :D