Why pro-lifers oppose abortion: Sperm pride
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According to liberal feminists, men are only allowed to be fathers if women want them to pay child support. Otherwise, they’re only good for supporting abortion.
Hence, the most tightly wound feminist of them all, Amanda Marcotte, was so galled by the cake above that she tweeted:
So a kind, friendly attaboy to a father, who most will tell you are all but ignored throughout (wanted) pregnancies, translated to Marcotte as evidence that male procreational pride is what is keeping abortion contentious.
Such misplaced sexism. In actuality, abortion allows men to more freely exploit women. Read Marcotte’s wharped view of pregnancy and childbirth (warning: crude):
Because there are just a lot of men out there who really need to believe they made the baby by having an orgasm, and that no one should credit the person who gained weight, contributed a quarter of her daily nutrients for 9 months, threw up a lot, saw her feet change size, and then pushed an 8 pound human out of her genitals while suffering massive pain. Because if you admit that b****es can pull that stunt off, you might have to admit that they’re good at other things, too.
I don’t often say I feel sorry for someone, because it’s condescending to do so, but I do feel sorry for Marcotte. Her understanding of male and female relationships, sexuality, and children is so abnormal.
Jill Stanek is a nurse turned speaker, columnist and blogger, a national figure in the effort to protect both preborn and postborn innocent human life.
Who gets the piece with the goggles?
She is one sad and lost soul. I would normally be disgusted, but this is a time for pity. I feel sorry for her, too.
(Gerard, ha!)
I don’t know where to begin with such completely mixed-up and confused drivel. The basics of human reproduction and the model of the family seem to me to be so simple that even a single guy such as me ‘gets it’. (Maybe also because I was an unplanned extra in a large family)
But if ever you needed a poster child for how abortion has side-effects – including degrading the ability to think clearly – then Amanda Marcotte provides it in spades. Living in such a dark and cynical state of mind robs her the most of all. Pity is an understandable response for someone in a self-induced rejection of reality.
Okay. So the congratulatory sperm cake she has a problem with, but bloody fetus cookies are just fine?? Oy.
So abnormal or so paid for!
I’m more upset that she took this so seriously. Look at that cake- does that scream, “Take me seriously!” to any of you?
Amanda Marcotte is a misandrist. Her hate defines her.
Ok, I would never bake or give a sperm cake, but I can totally see how someone might. My cousin and his wife have been trying to have a baby for years, and all of their friends know it. I could totally see his work friends giving him something like this when they finally get pregnant.
It isn’t saying “hey look, you did all the work buddy!” but rather “hey, congrats bud.”
Contrary to Amanda’s twisted views, men sometimes get excited that they’re new fathers. Who’d have thought?
“Because there are just a lot of men out there who really need to believe they made the baby by having an orgasm, and that no one should credit the person who gained weight, contributed a quarter of her daily nutrients for 9 months, threw up a lot, saw her feet change size, and then pushed an 8 pound human out of her genitals while suffering massive pain. Because if you admit that b****es can pull that stunt off, you might have to admit that they’re good at other things, too.”
Dear Amanda,
It’s evident that you have never had a real man, in or out of bed. If you did, you wouldn’t have written such an angry tirade.
By “real man”, I’m not talking about any of that macho crap that strutting little boys do in college. I’m talking about the men who tell their wives how beautiful and radiant they are, all while they,
“gained weight, contributed a quarter of her daily nutrients for 9 months, threw up a lot, saw her feet change size, and then pushed an 8 pound human out of her genitals while suffering massive pain.”
Real men tell their wives these things not because they think that’s what they need to say, but because that’s how we genuinely feel. “The two shall become one flesh,” shows its full realization as we look upon our wives with profound love and admiration for suffering all that they do in order to bring to fruition the highest expression of our love for one another.
And yes, we are forgotten in the midst of all the proceedings. But we also don’t complain because we’re too busy worrying about our wives, worrying about our babies, worrying if we are equal to the enormity of the task before us.
My wife had three C-sections, each more difficult than the one before. On the birth of my first child, he came within hours of death. On the birth of our third child, Regina had an anesthetic reaction and her vitals started going south. All I could do was hold her head in my hands and pray as I’ve never prayed before. I was lucky. Regina lived.
I know others whose wives never made it home.
Real men bear it all in silence and don’t make themselves the center of attention during pregnancy, delivery, and post-delivery adjustments. We do so not out of heroics, but because we’re simply too busy looking after our soul-mates.
Those are the real men.
Then there are the little boys, the sniveling wimps that foul-mouthed, angry women such as yourself attract. Real men abhor women who champion tearing babies apart. So you get the bottom of the barrel. That’s why you can’t fathom such humor among men who simply don’t discuss themselves during the whole experience of pregnancy and labor, because they don’t believe it’s all about themselves. Sperm cakes say it all without saying a word. It’s the affirmation of a man (in typical guy humor) having lived up to his manly responsibilities.
But you get the losers, because that’s all that’s left for women with no love in their hearts. Good women attract good men.
It’s really that simple.
Get well soon.
“Because if you admit that b****es can pull that stunt off, you might have to admit that they’re good at other things, too.”
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That bit of ‘hysterical’ bloviation is crying out for some pithy reparté, but alas I will exercise restraint and let it pass.
@Gerard: Oh My Gosh, You’ve said it all! ~Applause~
There are men, and then there are REAL Men..and you’ve pointed out the difference between them.
Great post Gerard!
“Real men abhor women who champion tearing babies apart.”
Sums it up for me.
Frankly, that sperm cake belongs in Cake Wrecks. Eeew!
Amanda Marcotte is a moonbat. In Amandaland, if you acknowledge that men have a role in conceiving children, even if it involves his – *GASP* – ORGASM! – you must be putting women down!
Never mind the fact that if a man really wants nothing to do with a child beyond the orgasm, abortion is his very best friend!
Well, if it’s not chocolate with cream cheese frosting, I’m not interested.
Amanda: Live! Love! Laugh!
Let’s title the cake “Swimmy”. Get it Amanda? “Swimmy”? Hardee har har! I slay myself, I honestly do.
As I read this two questions come to mind: with this logic, how do pro-aborts keep winning the debate on legal abortion? and Why do pro-lifers let them?
Carder: “chocolate with cream cheese frosting”
Ouch, Carder, now no matter what I do – watch TV, walk around, read some more online stuff, etc., that phrase keeps circulating through my mind every 4 seconds.
I’m surprised she had the gonads to even acknowledge men’s part in procreation, supremacist that she is. Guess her ‘fish and bicycle’ script must have gotten momentarily lost. Dr. Nadal said everything that needs to be said. Glad I’m among the blessed who got a real man. Pretty sure Mrs. Nadal feels the same way ;)
Jill,
“Pretty sure Mrs. Nadal feels the same way”
Most days ;-)
From the “good for supporting abortion” link right under the cake picture:
Why do you think there is a shortage of outspoken pro-abort men?
If there really is, I’d say it would not be the case if men could get pregnant.
Carder, you slay me, too… lol…
Abortionists have NOT ever won any debates. Their “arguments” are all fallacies and have all been refuted.
The reason they have “won” anything is because they have gone up against a strategically clueless unborn human rights movement which does not know how to win.
With proper leadership, effective action and solid strategic understanding, this struggle should have been won in the 1970’s and 1980’s.
I’m more upset that she took this so seriously. Look at that cake- does that scream, “Take me seriously!” to any of you?
Lolz. :D
If there really is, I’d say it would not be the case if men could get pregnant.
Why? Because pregnancy is just that horrible, disgusting, and abhorrent? Who rasied you?
Frankly, that sperm cake belongs in Cake Wrecks. Eeew!
I think it’s already there… I’m sure I’ve seen it before, and I’m a regular Cake Wrecks reader.
Not to contradict your premise, Joe, but they’ve won for years. Abortion is still legal. That should be victory enough. For them, anyways.
If you click through, Cake Wrecks is where she got the photo from. There’s a few other similarly themed cakes there.
I would never give that cake, but hahaha wow it’s hilarious. : )
And right on, Gerard. Glad I have a real man who will soon be my husband. : )
Gerard Nadal said @: February 9, 2011 at 9:31 pm
Excellent comment. Very true.
And it is sad that Amanda doesn’t realize abortion advocacy encourages more males to avoid maturing into real men, but strongly promotes preying upon women of all ages for sexual gratification.
Amanda is PA, and needs serious help.
I have a sudden urge to sing Monty Python’s “Every sperm is sacred… every sperm is good, every sperm is needed, in your neighborhood…”
Lol!!!
I used to believe in reincarnation. Though I am an active Catholic now, I just gotta ask myself if Amanda IS Margaret Sanger? According to one New Age writer, one could even reincarnate while one’s previous life still exists (time being eternal and all that). Hmm… But just for the record, I can’t say it enough, my dad is my hero. He’s not perfect- he didn’t buy me a pony for my 8th birthday, but he’s the most awesome man I know!! Love ya, Dad!!
Amanda Marcotte perfectly displays the truth of what Radio Talk Show Host Michael Savage says about her and her kind, “Liberalism is a mental illness.” So, let’s not look for reasoning here.
..hmmm..at least she acknowledged that when women give birth they “pushed an 8 pound human out of her genitals” …
…not a blob, not a clump, not ‘potential’ life…
that looks exactly like the sort of cake my husband would like to be served. His friends were totally high-fiving him when I got pregnant- his block and tackle worked! He took me and his business partner to lunch on the main street of town, just so he could strut down the street with two pregnant women, and have guys think “Did he knock them both up? They’re HUGE! Those boys will be wrestlers! They’ll be Conan the Barbarian!”
I didn’t think this. He told me. Why wouldn’t he be excited about having sperm that could go the distance, and make some seriously big, healthy babies? We have a ten year old, and eight year old, and a five year old. When they are getting annoying- as in, not letting us have any privacy- I say ” hey, your sperm that’s walking around is keeping the rest of your sperm from getting a chance to come out and spawn an arm wrestler!”
And, yes, I was there- fat, three c- sections, big feet, all that. But you know, it could have been someone else’s sperm, and someone else’s cake, and someone else’s little weak baby. Why not celebrate HIS?
Sha- ah.
Suburban marital humor can be rough. Judd Apatow will never go broke, you know? He knows his audience.
and flowers to Mrs Nadal. You are such a loving, sweet man. She’s very lucky to be with you.
This is pretty funny – a commenter at Marcotte’s blog thinks the sperm’s name is “Jason”.
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Gerard,
Your post was great and hopefully you’ve shown it to your wife. She must be proud. :)
So, let’s review, Amanda. Pushing an 8 pound human out through our genitals is the one thing we can do that men can’t, and we become equal to men by killing the one thing we can do that men can’t. Yeah, that’s genius. And they wonder why we laugh out loud…
Jill 4:10 – Ha!! No kidding. What a great point.
Thanks Ari & Janet.
I definitely married up.
Jill,
Your further thoughts @ 4:10 P.M. are dead on. It’s too bad that women like Amanda don’t attract the sort of men who stand bewildered and dumb-struck at what women can do that we can’t.
I can assure you that after witnessing childbirth, if God suddenly changed the order and made men get pregnant, it would be the end of the species! We simply wouldn’t/couldn’t do it. And so the very event that transforms men’s regard for our wives, plunging us into depths of reverence we never fathomed becomes the very event that fills us with contempt for women like Amanda who pervert it by slaughtering their babies in the pursuit of ‘equality’.
As was said above by Chris:
“And it is sad that Amanda doesn’t realize abortion advocacy encourages more males to avoid maturing into real men, but strongly promotes preying upon women of all ages for sexual gratification.”
And that is the very perversion of feminism itself. The very means these stupid women have chosen to express their liberation are the very means used by little boys to use women and discard them. It’s axiomatic that real men don’t respect women who give it away for free and are willing to slaughter their own babies in order to be free to give more away for free.
We call them pigs.
“I was lucky. Regina lived.”
So knowing your wife was at risk for pregnancy complications, wouldn’t the “most loving” (your words) decision have been to abstain from sex until she was too old to conceive?
Megan,
“So knowing your wife was at risk for pregnancy complications, wouldn’t the “most loving” (your words) decision have been to abstain from sex until she was too old to conceive?”
You simply don’t understand love, and its sacrificial nature. That’s why you continue defending having killed your baby.
And as Regina never had an anasthetic reaction before, it was unanticipated and unforeseen. The reality of our daughter’s life is such that we would do it all again to have her in our lives, gracing the world as she does.
I sincerely offer the following advice:
Stop opining on matters of love until you find a man willing to die to himself for love of you.
Then make a baby with that man.
Then reconcile with God and the one you killed.
Then glory in the liberation that only comes when you are willing to die to yourself so that your husband and child may live full lives.
Get well soon.
How many hours of combing Dr Nadal’s post did it take you, Megan, to find something to nit pick? I read that she had a reaction to anesthesia. That’s a risk with surgery, yes. You actually have the gall to suggest he could have foreseen that, and they should have abstained because of it? LOL. Life happens, and there are no guarantees. You’re assuming a whole lot with your barbed remark and you fall flat with this pathetic attempt of *hinting* at misogyny.
Good advice, Gerard, though I’d offer a slight amendment to it:
Accept the reconciliation provided by the God who loves you so much he became a man to die for you.
Understand that in doing so, He provided the way for you to be forgiven of the life you took. Then find the man who has also accepted that free gift of God…and so on.
It’s just so much empty rhetoric.
“Stop opining on matters of love until you find a man willing to die to himself for love of you.”
Your wife risked her life in pregnancy, and you’d be willing to foist that experience on other women in the name of unborn children you’ll never know? Sorry, but I’ll find myself a man who isn’t like THAT. Seriously, where do you get off telling women what to do with their bodies? When did you somehow find that acceptable?
Megan,
Evaluate both of these statements of yours, given in temporal sequence:
1. So knowing your wife was at risk for pregnancy complications, wouldn’t the “most loving” (your words) decision have been to abstain from sex until she was too old to conceive?
2. Seriously, where do you get off telling women what to do with their bodies? When did you somehow find that acceptable?
The answer to your question in #2 comes from the example of your admonition to me and my wife in #1.
You’re slipping Megs. Jill’s gonna take away your pro-abort troll certification for her blog if you keep slipping. Only high quality trolls get to look foolish here.
Okay All,
My seven year-old daughter just walked in after waking up and saw the cake and asked what it was.
Without missing a beat I told her it was a tadpole. Thank you Holy Spirit for that burst of inspiration!!
Gerard @ 11:47 pm,
LOL!
Ari I loved your post. I just did. That was hysterical and awesome. God bless you and your strutting alpha male LOL
Dr. Gerard as always, you have a way with words. I’m sure your wife appreciated the fact that you imparted to the rest of the world the awe and reverence you have for her. God bless y’all.
My husband was happy when he knew he and I were able to conceive. We had no idea until it happened that it would happen for us. He was wonderful to me and still is. My husband is my hero.
Megan, so you don’t want a man who would look at you in awe and say “Wow, it’s amazing you can conceive another human being and give birth to said human being.” You don’t want that? You don’t want a man who’s impressed with how women are able to do something they can’t even imagine doing (not even once)? Women have special graces. It’s unfortunate we forget that sometimes and it’s even more unfortunate that many [I didn’t say all, I said many] pro-choice/pro-aborts NEVER remember that!
No pro-lifer looks at a woman as just a baby machine, rather we look at a woman as an amazing being…an amazing human being. That because she’s able to conceive, carry for 9 plus months (I think it’s closer to 10 personally) and give birth to another human being that it’s an incredibly amazing, awe-striking and awesome, jaw-dropping incredible miracle.