Virgin monologues
The March 10 issue of Us Weekly reports:
Sorry, Jonas Brothers groupies! In the March issue of Details magazine, Joe Jonas said he and his bandmates, brothers Kevin and Nick, have made “promises to ourselves and to God that we’ll stay pure till marriage.”
In fact, each New Jersey-bred heartthrob – their father is a minister – wears a unique purity ring: Joe, 18, sports a silver band adorned with a cross; Kevin, 20, brandishes a tiffany ring; while Nick, 15, revealed, “I got mine made at Disney World.”
Are they sincere? Michelle Boros, program diretor of XM Radio’s 20 on 20 (who has worked with the single singers) believes so. “Knowing them and their beliefs, it’s the real deal,” she tells Us….
Adds Details…
[T]he teen-pop trio who stand, at this very moment, on the brink of hugeness – wear the metal bands on their fingers to symbolize, as Joe puts it, “promises to ourselves and to God that we’ll stay pure till marriage.”…
While Nick concedes that “screaming girls are awesome,” he insists that “we always kind of stand for being a role model and trying to make a difference, and I think this” – meaning the decision to wear the purity rings – “is just one of our ways of kind of like being different than everybody else out there.”
Think about that: Three guys in their hormonal prime – three healthy, handsome gents whose very job is to be besieged by swooning, text-messaging maidens who are finally old enough to attend concerts on their own – have committed themselves, publicly, to a policy of monastic celibacy.
At the very same time, movies like Superbad and The 40-Year-Old Virgin are imprinting on a new generation the joyously raunchy mythology of losin’ it…. [T]his manifesto of squeaky-cleanness runs… flagrantly counter to the rock-and-roll ethos….
And then there is Dancing with the Stars’ Julianne Hough, who reveals the same pledge, as reported by ET:
… Juliane… opens up in the upcoming edition of CosmoGIRL! about trying to fit in in Hollywood, her love life and how she is still a virgin.
“I want to be with that special person,” she tells the magazine…. “I think the decision to have sex before marriage is an individual one, but if you’re just with one person, it’s only for one good reason, and [waiting to have sex] will strengthen that relationship. I’m not trying to preach consequences here, but I think when you say no, down the line it will be a better decision.”
Julianne says she broke up with her fiancè last year because she was young and wanted to experience the Hollywood life, but now she admits she doesn’t know if she totally fits in.
“I tried to go out and mingle with people in the industry and date people, but I felt I was different than most of them,” she says. “I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs, so those things immediately separate me. It’s all very enticing, though.”
She says it’s her dad who helps keep her grounded. “My dad, whom I’m very close with, will text me, ‘Are you doing the right things, in the right place, at the right time?’ And it’s usually when I’m someplace I shouldn’t be. So I’ll call him and say, ‘Thanks, I needed to hear that.'”
What wonderful role models. We need to pray they stand strong. Note one commonality: fathers who are involved and positive role models.
[HT for Julianne story: reader Laura Loo; top Jonas Brothers photo courtesy of Celebrity News; 2nd JB photo courtesy of Details]



Awesome! I am thankful for the stand that they have taken and their vow to WAIT! My children will have some positive role models in Hollywierd! Thank you, Jill for pointing out the important role of fathers as well.
My 7 year old has a huge crush on the Jonas Brothers. I can’t remember which one is her favorite, but I’m almost ashamed to admit that I think the cd she has is kinda catchy.
I’ve never even heard of them….the band or the woman on the magazine cover. Good for them, though. I respect their decisions to remain abstinent, and would never fault them for it. :)
Remember when Britney claimed she was saving herself for marriage?
Ahhhhh the power of a good publicist.
Amanda, you’re saying teen virginity is something positive to publicize? Why?
Jill, I don’t think that Amanda spoke of teen virginity as anything “positive”, probably more along the lines of it doesn’t matter either way. But, you’re right in the way that Hollywood promotes a sexualized culture, wherein you MUST have sex to be part of the “in” crowd. That’s wrong. Sex is a personal decision and the fact that these stars are saying that they’ll decide when the time is right, and not be pressured by this over-sexualized society of fame and glamour, is rather heartening to me. The fact that Britney was published as a “virgin” was probably just material to heighten her fame, since being a virgin in hollywood is a smack in the face to the status quo. It was probably a publicity technique more than a push for virginity among teens. Personally, I’d rather push for a boost in self-esteem and self-determination among teens, wherein they choose the path of their sexuality-whether they wait for marriage or enter into a pressure-less sexual relationship based on consent and trust earlier.
Being valued as a virgin is in and of itself a form of objectification, where women especially are given a value based on how “pure” they are. It’s an archaic, discriminatory notion that when taken to extremes devalues female human beings and puts all of their worth on some negligible piece of tissue between their legs. It’s disgusting, and the practice of valuing virginity or non-virginity based on societal preferences needs to stop. Virginity, and its worth, should be decided by the individual, not society.
I think Amanda’s point is once you have decided to make your sex life, or lack thereof, a publicity stunt, the concept is the same whether you claim (falsely) to be a virgin or beome a crotch-flashing slut like Britney has done.
How about just conducting yourself in a way that doesn’t embarrass yourself and your family, keep your mouth shut about your sex life, and rely on your talent?
Obviously that wouldn’t work for the people in your article who have to have to use “purity” as a publicity stunt to make up for a lack of talent.
Yes! I remember well when Brittney’s virginity was a very hot topic. I’m so glad so many teen girls decided to make her their role model.
The Jonas Brothers are a bunch of cuties.
I do have a secret love for boy bands.
The immortal Lemmy, of Motorhead, the greatest musical group of all time.
A contestant on Make Me A Supermodel – Holly – also has publicly stated on the show that she and her fiancee are waiting until marriage. It was a subplot on one episode, where the models were required to be a nude model for art students and then model lingerie, she had a big problem with it because she was saving herself.
The concept of sleeping with one person – your spouse- is popping up in the most unexpected places!
HAHAHAHAHA Doug – post of the day… post of the year. Greatest post EVER. =)
Jill, and others – my point wasn’t anything negative OR positive about virginity. It was more of a general eye-roll towards our culture’s obsession with vapid celebrities and their lives. Think about all the Moms who thought Britney was a great role model after all of her “sincere” claims about virginity and purity. OOOOOPS. I realize teenagers have always and will always have crushes on the cute teen celeb of the moment, but it should stop there. Rather than encouraging our children to idolize these kids because of some story they managed to get published in a teen rag, which may or may not be accurate now, and especially 2 months from now, why not encourage them NOT TO CARE, and focus on looking up to people in their lives who actually deserve the admiration?
I think it’s just great these teens are saying waiting. I think the media distorts sex into something it isn’t. Whenever my friends tell me they are thinking about having sex for the first time I ask them how they would feel if the guy left them the next day. They act like it couldn’t happen but it happens all the time.
T]he teen-pop trio who stand, at this very moment, on the brink of hugeness – wear the metal bands on their fingers to symbolize, as Joe puts it, “promises to ourselves and to God that we’ll stay pure till marriage.”…
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Huh? Marriage makes you impure?
I’ve never even heard of them….the band or the woman on the magazine cover.
Posted by: Lyssie at March 6, 2008 7:41 AM
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You just don’t read enough “Tiger Beat” magazine.
(I recently had a 13-year-old girl GASP when I didn’t know what “High School Musical” was. Apparently it’s some sort of cult…)
No Sally. Two become one.
They still have Tiger Beat?? No way! Leif Garrett was on the cover of my fist magazine! Along with Donny Osmond and Michael Jackson.(back when he was a boy)
No Sally. Two become one.
Posted by: Carla at March 6, 2008 11:53 AM
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Sure Carla. Women become nonexistent once their virginity is sold to the highest bidder through marriage. @@
According to the boy’s implication, purity will end for him at marriage.
Yes, they still have TigerBeat…my 11 yr old daughter has one and that was my reaction, too!
Hannah Montana, the Jonas Brothers and High School Musical 3( yes, they’re doing another one) are the more popular ones)
I just don’t agree with what Vanessa Hudgins did with her photo…
Come on guys! 16 magazine had all those great centerfold pin ups!
Davy Jones was sooooooooo cute! I still have my autographed Monkees picture. Of course by the time i was 12 it was all about Robert Plant.
How much could you get for an autographed Monkees picture??!! I totally forgot about Davy Jones! :)
Sally,
If you have no spiritual understanding of God and His Word then what I wrote would make no sense to you. Sorry. No, those boys are NOT saying that marrying makes them “impure”. They are virgins. When they marry they will not be virgins. I thought that was self explanatory. :O
haha Carla, I used to beg my mom to buy those when The New Kids were all over them. She never let me have them, she said it was trash and didn’t belong in our house. Somehow I still managed to survive my childhood. =)
What Amanda? You didn’t steal away to a friend’s house and catch a sneak peek at The New Kids? Too funny!! I am so old.
How much could you get for an autographed Monkees picture??!! I totally forgot about Davy Jones! :)
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He lives in Santa Fe and is spotted from time to time. I have no idea how much that pic is worth. I’ve got all kinds of fun stuff from my childhood. Peace sign and flower power jewelry. All my girl scout and girl guard badges. A cool old transister radio in a leather case with matching leather cased earplug………..
Sally,
If you have no spiritual understanding of God and His Word then what I wrote would make no sense to you. Sorry. No, those boys are NOT saying that marrying makes them “impure”. They are virgins. When they marry they will not be virgins. I thought that was self explanatory. :O
Posted by: Carla at March 6, 2008 12:35 PM
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You have to admit that the boy’s wording was odd leaving one to wonder what impure things he had planned after marriage. He certainly set himself up for some off color one liners. ; )
Lighten up! I was kidding!
(I recently had a 13-year-old girl GASP when I didn’t know what “High School Musical” was. Apparently it’s some sort of cult…)
It is quite the phenomenon. My daughter loves to dance around to the songs.
“High School Musical” is the current generations’ version of “Grease”…only cleaner!
“High School Musical” is the current generations’ version of “Grease”…only cleaner!
My daughter makes me watch it all the time..I know all the songs and frequently find myself humming them in the shower. ahhh!
Sally is telling Carla to lighten up?? I can’t stop laughing! Too funny! :) You have made my day Sally! Now sell the Monkees picture on Ebay and get yourself a little something…….
I honestly thought I was going to have to explain the wedding night to you……HAHAHAHA! Not goin down that road.
the top ten pigs:
10. Bill Wyman (Rolling Stones bassist) – 1,000
9. Earvin (Magic) Johnson (basketball star) – 1,000
8. Lemmy Kilmister (Motorhead frontman) – 1,200
7. Jack Nicholson (actor) – 2,000
6. Ilie Nastase (tennis star) – 2,500
5. Engelbert Humperdinck (singer) – 3,000
4. Julio Iglesias (singer) – 3,000
3. Gene Simmons (Kiss frontman) – 4,600
2. Charlie Sheen (actor) – 5,000
1. Umberto Billo (Venetian hotel porter) – 8,000
Wilt Chamberlain -20,000
Jasper, I don’t understand. What is your defination of a “pig?”
Women become nonexistent once their virginity is sold to the highest bidder through marriage.
Posted by: Sally at March 6, 2008 12:24 PM
Sally please let us know where they are auctioning women’s virginity. We will be sure to pass the info to the appropriate agencies.
Sally please let us know where they are auctioning women’s virginity. We will be sure to pass the info to the appropriate agencies.
Posted by: Anonymous at March 6, 2008 2:33 PM
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Unfortunately this antiquated notion is still embraced by many. Females have historically been used to cement family alliances for gain of power and financial gain. Certainly you have a least read a smidgeon of history Anony.
“I honestly thought I was going to have to explain the wedding night to you……HAHAHAHA! Not goin down that road.”
Penis goes where!?!?
http://www.lolcatbible.com/images/thumb/6/61/Catdick.jpg/180px-Catdick.jpg
A little help here please?
I thought sex was talking to boys…
That’s sex? That’s where babies come from!? Well now, this changes everything.
http://bp3.blogger.com/_8tZf9lm-smo/R3ZWW4F4V_I/AAAAAAAAAEs/TKal7WqmnC0/s1600-h/teencat.bmp
“Sally please let us know where they are auctioning women’s virginity. We will be sure to pass the info to the appropriate agencies.”
What agencies? I’m not a virgin, but I can pretend. Where can I get my money?
Sally is telling Carla to lighten up?? I can’t stop laughing! Too funny! :) You have made my day Sally! Now sell the Monkees picture on Ebay and get yourself a little something…….
I honestly thought I was going to have to explain the wedding night to you……HAHAHAHA! Not goin down that road.
Posted by: Carla at March 6, 2008 1:28 PM
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No way! Not selling my Davy! I don’t know how you could suggest such a thing!
The Cosmo Girl say’s 4 Dates Guys Love. What should I do with my boyfriend for Spring break? Anyone have any cheap, easy and fun ideas?
Sally please let us know where they are auctioning women’s virginity. We will be sure to pass the info to the appropriate agencies.”
What agencies? I’m not a virgin, but I can pretend. Where can I get my money?
Posted by: Jess at March 6, 2008 3:06 PM
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I’m sure you can find a web sight. Along with naughty nurse and horny school marm.
Sally, ugh I don’t have to touch anyone do I?
The Cosmo Girl say’s 4 Dates Guys Love. What should I do with my boyfriend for Spring break? Anyone have any cheap, easy and fun ideas?
Posted by: Jess at March 6, 2008 3:12 PM
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Kinda depends on where you live and what you enjoy doing together.
Sally, ugh I don’t have to touch anyone do I?
Posted by: Jess at March 6, 2008 3:15 PM
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EEEEEUUUU! I would hope not!
Ok. Ok. Keep your Davy.
“A contestant on Make Me A Supermodel – Holly – also has publicly stated on the show that she and her fiancee are waiting until marriage. It was a subplot on one episode, where the models were required to be a nude model for art students and then model lingerie, she had a big problem with it because she was saving herself.”
People — women and men — have the right to decide if anyone else sees them naked, but I’d like to point out (again) that nudity does not equal sex.
“the top ten pigs:”
Please apologize to pigs.
As for the Jonas brothers, it’s fine if they wish to abstain, and mention it, if asked. The media always ask you about your views on sex (usually assuming that you’re sexually active), so if you’re not partaking, whether “saving it for marriage” or whether you’re just not interested in sex, sure — go for it — tell them you’re not partaking. I prefer what Morrissey used to say about the whole matter: “Sex is a waste of batteries.”
Jasper – interesting list, but I think Wilt the Stilt overstated his case a bit. 20,000 would be two women a day for 27 years….
Cute pigs, Doug. :)
I want to get one of those miniature piggles…they’re like piggies who never grow to more than ten pounds. So adorable. :)
Doug-
California – brush fire central – is suddenly crazy over miniature sheep. They top out at 24″ at the shoulder, and they’re painfully cute.
Here are some pics: http://www.kigerwine.com/sheep.htm
More pics (Washington)
http://www.oldeenglishbabydollregistry.com/photos.htm
Laura, awesomely cute sheep. In the 1970s we got Sue, then Napoleon the ram. That led to Lily, and later, Rollo.
I figure the miniature sheep are but one more stage in the ovine infiltration of our society.
They lull us to sleep with their docile ways and seeming unintelligence. They watch, they wait. They know much, and guess more.
They war among themselves, growing stronger and more practiced. One day they will mount their attack.
They war among themselves, growing stronger and more practiced. One day they will mount their attack.
Posted by: Doug at March 6, 2008 11:28 PM
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I would tell you my history of ovine-related injuries, but I’m just too embarrassed. Rams are secretly MEAN and territorial!
You don’t have to take birth control and you know your life won’t be interrupted by an unintended pregnancy. Smarter then taking birth control, having sex, having unintended pregnancy, having unwanted baby, abortion.
Laura, “Nappy” (Napoleon), our ram, was a blast to play with. No horns, just a wooly and thus padded, head. He would charge you and you could jump over him.
Laura and Doug, The real reason you want abortion kept legal…you are sexually obsessed. To you, any children you might conceive while fulfilling your obsessions are treated as little more than waste product from your hedonistic lifestyles.
Laura and Doug, The real reason you want abortion kept legal…you are sexually obsessed. To you, any children you might conceive while fulfilling your obsessions are treated as little more than waste product from your hedonistic lifestyles.
Posted by: truthseeker at March 7, 2008 11:56 AM
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You say that like it’s a bad thing…
Laura and Doug, The real reason you want abortion kept legal…you are sexually obsessed. To you, any children you might conceive while fulfilling your obsessions are treated as little more than waste product from your hedonistic lifestyles.
Truthseeker, that’s just silly, one more incredibly and ludicrously weak pretense on your part. No chance of any kids for me – my wife has had a hysterectomy. Tell you what, why don’t you pray for us to have kids, and if it happens then I’ll grant you that there’s something to what you say. ; )
However, Truthseeker, I will be eternally grateful to you for pointing out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MX1_V2PzAUw
Didn’t know that was POD that did it.
I’d like to march those Jonas boys right down to the barbershop for a proper haircut.
im a virgin 4 the very first time
hahahahahahahhaha
but true
the guy up the top not a virgin
he’s sux so many cock itz not funniz
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I’m understanding you, but I’m not agreeing with you. But anyway I’m sorry that I don’t know the right thing to do in that situation
:( im gutted that the guys have done that :'( Me and my mates love them to bits..:P Guess we will just have to marry them then lol