Pro-life tragic vid of day: Dad throws toddler, self, off high-rise
by LauraLoo
“I want to be the best dad and husband. Nothing is more important to me right now.”
In September, Dmitriy Kanarikov wrote these beautiful words on Facebook. However, everything changed when Kanarikov, who was involved in a custody dispute with his estranged wife, was supposed to turn his 3-year-old son Kirill over to the boy’s mother. Instead, he threw the child off the roof of a 52-story Manhattan apartment building before jumping to his death, police said.
[youtube]http://youtu.be/fx7L9LG_x1k[/youtube]
Simply heartbreaking.
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Jan.03, 2014 12:00 pm |
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Jill Stanek is a nurse turned speaker, columnist and blogger, a national figure in the effort to protect both preborn and postborn innocent human life.
Such a tragic story. But if we changed his gender, made the child four years younger, and moved them to Ireland then according to the Protection of Life During Pregnancy Act 2013 the right course of action in this case would have been to offer to kill the child.
I’d be interested in knowing if the mom brought up mental health issues as a concern during custody discussions and if anyone listened to her.
This is absolutely horrifying. I can’t imagine being that poor mother right now. I hope she has a lot of supportive family, friends, church, etc, to help her.
Stuff like this, I can’t imagine what was going through his head. He hated his ex-wife so much that he was willing to kill his own child so she couldn’t have custody? Was he trying to punish her? It seems like there are so many fathers after going through custody battles who kill themselves and their children, I want to know how this behavior gets triggered so it can be counteracted.
When it comes to children being thrown around like rag dolls in court I can understand how things like this happen.
I dont like to talk about it too much but since my husbands death my husbands daughter is trying to take custody of my 3 year old son away. $$$ is involved and judges are hearing her out. I cant get into too much detail but I wont be able to live without him.
We have so many liberal judges in Cleveland its awful! Please for all of you who will pray for me that my deceased husbands daughter gets nowhere. I would never ever hurt my son but Ive angered my deceased husbands family by getting remarried. They are actually infuriated. Werent we just talking about this a few weeks ago? The doctor whose family was murdered remarried.
I’m sorry for what you’re going through, heather. I will pray the best I am capable of for you.
Ty so very much dlpl:)
Praying Heather…I can’t imagine someone taking my boys away either. But as to this story…I wouldn’t kill them. Thats what I don’t get. And they often kill their children in such painful, horrific ways. They treat the children as possessions as so many in our society do. “If I can’t have you then no one can.” How many times do I hear that sentiment from women going into the clinic? They’ll never consider adoption even though they can’t or dont’ want to parent. They just decide if they can’t have the child no one will.
SMH.
Right syd. Children are treated as pawns or posessions in society. Fathers have little say many times yet they generally have NONE in abortion unless both people want it done.
Omg what a horrible fate that poor little boy met!! Our society is a wreck. Women killing their children 5000 times a day. The unborn meet a savage brutal ending too. Look at Gosnells babies. Its almost as if he took extra measures to brutally kill them. I cant shake that awful picture.
When it comes to children being thrown around like rag dolls in court I can understand how things like this happen.
My kids were tossed around in court too. Mostly because their dad wanted CONTROL. When their dad got what he wanted, he stopped seeing the kids. Even if I knew I would never see my children again, I wouldn’t throw them off a building.
This happened because this little boy’s dad was a homicidal control freak who didn’t get what he wanted (there was a restraining order on him and the child had supervised visitation so there was an obvious history of problems).
This DID NOT happen because of anything the mom or the courts did. Period.
We literally live in a throw away culture. Unfortunately, some consider everything and everyone expendable. Life is not precious. People are tossed aside. They are just a means to an end and not human beings created by God in their own right.
He could have also been so twisted that he thought it would be nobler even heroic for them to die instead of his wife getting custody of the little boy.
Hi Prax I wasnt aware of all that. Now I understand but now its too late. I also believe our abortion culture robs many good men of fatherhood. Women have all the say. Her body her choice.
Women have all the say. Her body her choice.
Your forgetting that more women than not are coerced to abort, many of them by the fathers. Politicians could have stopped this atrocity by now. The vast majority of politicians over the last 40 years have been male. The few women we hear over and over about in the prochoice movement are just pawns of “powerful” men.
But prax dont forget the PC females on the supreme court bench who want women to have the right to keep killing!
If we didnt keep it legal as Joy Behar would say “aaaaaah we would have MILLIONS of women dying in the streets!”
Oh yes just bodies stacking up by the trillions!!
Your right, heather. We need to get the proaborts out of all positions of power and stop the killing as soon as possible.
“Your forgetting that more women than not are coerced to abort, many of them by the fathers. ”
That’s still about 500K abortions where there is no coercion reported. I think people tend to excuse and apologize for female violence of all types a lot, just like they do with a lot of male violence (“boys will be boys” turns into “well she didn’t really know what she was doing/it was her victim’s fault”). Not saying you were saying that, it’s just what I notice in the pro-life movement. It’s infantilizing in my opinion.
I don’t think either gender bears more responsibility for abortion. Women might get them even without the father being aware, but men are definitely involved in getting her pregnant.
The fact remains that women remain the victims of violence from men way more often than vice-versa. I refuse to go around in circles about it with you again, Jack.
The courts are not stacked against men. There is one person responsible for the death of the little boy in the story. His father.
Except that the stats don’t back that up. But whatever. I get tired of the women are perfect meme.
I don’t blame anyone else besides this man for this child’s death. The court system is an entirely different story than some abusive person who murdered his child to hurt his ex.
Anyway I wasn’t talking about domestic abuse, I was talking about child abuse (abortion). Men may have a higher rate of violence, but that doesn’t excuse violent women or not make them exist. Not every abortion is coerced, women are not little kids who never make their own decisions.
Oh and when it comes to domestic violence, like I said before, male violence is a bigger problem because it’s more likely to be fatal. Even with similar DV rates, women are 2/3rd domestic violence deaths while men are 1/3rd. I just wanted to be clear on that.
Have a good weekend, I hope your family is doing well.
Oh hi Jack is that you????? Oh I agree. Many women ARE responsible for their own abortions. Plenty women back you on that here!
Im not going to duke this one out either but was my 26 year old friend ( a nursing student ) responsible for her own abortion? Of course. The dad wanted her to have the baby and she had other kids. She just didnt want to be bothered.
We just had a 21 year old mom of 3 sentenced to 31 years for killing her little boy. She stuffed him in a dumpster. If shes not to blame then who???
This site gets more in depth about coerced abortions: theunchoice.com
My family and I are getting over a bout of the flu but we’re on the upswing now! Hope you and your family are doing well too Jack and heather! Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you husband’s daughter comes to her senses soon.
Hi heather yeah this is me, sorry I thought you knew. I do want to be clear that I don’t consider aborting women necessarily bad people or “murderers” or anything like that, even when they made a completely free decision with no coercion they are still affected by the decades of pro-choice propaganda that allowed us to legalize the killing of babies as long as they aren’t born yet, as well as other things. I don’t think women who abort are comparable in most ways to parents (of either gender) who kill born children, it’s a different situation with different factors.
Yeah the unchoice website points out many factors that show that the choice isn’t as free as all that. I do know plenty of street girls who “chose” to abort, no one forced them in the clinic or made them, but their situations were pretty tenuous, I don’t consider that a completely free choice. I don’t want people to think that just because I consider men and women equally responsible in general for abortion, that I don’t recognize there are many factors at work.
Ugh the flu, my son is an asthmatic so I live in fear of the nasty strains. We’ve avoided it in my house so far, I hope you are all feeling better soon Prax.
I think my main problem with the meme that women are never genuinely violent is that it doesn’t give victims of a violent woman a voice, people will end up making excuses for her, or blame the victim, and in the criminal “justice” system it isn’t taken very seriously. I realize that’s a problem with victims of violent men as well, but there isn’t this push to deny that men are ever violent like there is with women. I don’t think that means we need to be like cracking down on women or anything like that, but there really needs to be a voice for people who have been victimized by women, they shouldn’t have to be quiet about it or be ignored. That’s about all there is to say about that.
Ty prax and Jack and by all means everyone get well. Its freezing her but Im not sick. Ty for the well wishes Prax. Yes some women are victims of abortion and some are not. Thats why its called a choice. You either make bad choices in this life or good choices. I have knownn men crushed by abortion and many women I knew could have kept the child. They were selfish. Does a rich Hollywood actress have enough $$ for a baby? Yes! Then why do so many of them kill their children?
Well I think all aborting women are victims in the sense that we live in a culture that has had decades upon decades of pro-abortion propaganda. Even Hollywood elites (maybe even especially them, considering that Hollywood is pretty pro-choice) aren’t immune to the way our society degrades unborn children.
And to be clear to you Jack my 26 year old girlfriend got pregnant by not taking any measures to avoid pregnancy. She walked into the clinic and signed the paperwork. She willingly got up on that table with twilight sleep. She had her cookies and juice post op. She didnt shed a tear and told me a little about the procedure and what she remembered. She said “It wasnt that bad at all.” She returned to school after a short recovery period. Her only complaints were slight bleeding and cramping.
Thanks, Jack. I hope it stays away from y’all. We got our flu shots this year too but it must be a different strain. It is terrible.
Yeah it seems to be particularly nasty this year. My son is supposed to go to school on Monday but I’m considering keeping him with me until it dies down just a bit, he’s ahead of his class anyway. I think it’s the one thing I miss about Florida so far, the flu seems to be less prevalent down there.
Jack my mom used to live in Bradenton Fla. Where do you live now???
Bradenton is over by Tampa huh? I grew up for a while in the panhandle and then like halfway between Tampa and Orlando, moved to Miami and stayed there for a while, and now I’m in the Pacific Northwest.
Yes Jack it is. I love Florida.
I don’t! :)
Cookies and juice? I know people of all ages love it, but how ironic that someone would be given a traditional child’s snack after having their own child murdered.
Speaking of Hollywood, it seems as though most of the time when a child is born to an unmarried well-known actress or singer she is usually, at least at that time, in a relationship with the father of the baby, most of which are long-term, basically de facto marriages, with many becoming actual marriages. I’m guessing that means that it’s possible that most of the ones who end up pregnant when not in that type of relationship abort?
Kelly…yeah I know. Strange isnt it?
“Well I think all aborting women are victims in the sense that we live in a culture that has had decades upon decades of pro-abortion propaganda. Even Hollywood elites (maybe even especially them, considering that Hollywood is pretty pro-choice) aren’t immune to the way our society degrades unborn children. ”
And we wonder why liberals now run this country. When supposed conservatives so vigorously defend the liberal ideal of abdicating personal responsibility, conservationism and this country is doomed. No. All aborting women are not victims. I grew in this culture and I don’t believe in killing babies. The same is true for many other on this site and every other pro-life website.
S5 I agree with you and im not worried about it because many women agree that not all women are victims. They are NOT! Shoot my own post abortive friend would tell you shes no victim! They didnt have to sell her an abortion. She knew what was going to happen before she went to the clinic. She was leaving that clinic non pregnant.
She could have walked out. She had $ family support and she was on her way to an education. She no longer wanted the man who got her pregnant in her life. He would have loved that kid but she took that from him.
I don’t believe all aborting women are victims either. However, had I not had a support system when I was pregnant, a couple of my children could easily have been an abortion statistic as well.
Please educate yourself on how abortion is only causing further abuse of women:
http://afterabortion.org/2013/un-womens-commission/
I grew in this culture and I don’t believe in killing babies.
It’s great that you are not as easily manipulated and coerced as others are. Not everyone is as strong as you, though.
Shoot my own post abortive friend would tell you shes no victim!
This reminds me when I was married to an abusive man and someone would ask me if everything was okay. ”Sure! Why do you ask?” I never saw myself as a victim and played everything was okay. Not saying this specifically about your friend heather, but many people are victims and don’t even realize it, they don’t admit it to themselves to say nothing of others.
“ When supposed conservatives so vigorously defend the liberal ideal of abdicating personal responsibility, conservationism and this country is doomed.”
Well, I’m not a conservative but I do believe in personal responsibility. But like Praxedes said, not everyone is as strong as you are. People have different circumstances and that affects them differently. Condemning and judging everyone because they aren’t as good as you doesn’t help.
“I never saw myself as a victim and played everything was okay. Not saying this specifically about your friend heather, but many people are victims and don’t even realize it, they don’t admit it to themselves to say nothing of others.”
Yup. I was utterly convinced that everything my parents did to me was completely my fault for years and years, it’s insidious. What people think about themselves is not always reality.
Yup. I was utterly convinced that everything my parents did to me was completely my fault for years and years, it’s insidious.
I am so darn happy you escaped from this! :)
Well I’m doing my best. I figure you start believing whatever you tell yourself so I start repeating the truth instead of the lies I got brainwashed into, and I think it’s starting to work.
I think the same thing could work for post-abortive people who are struggling, I know a lot of them feel so much self-hatred and pain.
Hi deluded and prax..you raise some good points but my friends back wasnt up against a wall. She was smart enough to understand how to get pregnant. She was smart enough to avoid an unwanted pregnancy. Abortion didnt have to be the way. She chose to go to bed with the ” loser ” and after finding out she was pregnant she chose the abortion clinic.
Im not saying women arent victims of abortion. Im just saying not all of them are.
Unless you guys are suggesting she victimized herself. The only victims I saw were that baby and the father of that baby. She wanted Mike out of her life because sex was fun but pregnancy wasnt part of the plan.