Weekend reads
Both of these columns are posted in full on page 2, in case you cannot access them.
New York Times op ed, “Why pro-choice Is a bad choice for Democrats,” June 22
Wall Street Journal op ed, “Unintended consequences: It’s not enough to be ‘wanted’,” June 19
Also, some readers of this blog may know Dan McConchie of Americans United for Life. He was involved in a serious motorcycle accident Friday that resulted in a lower spinal cord injury. No further details known yet. Please pray for Dan.
[Hat tips: NYT piece, reader Jeff; WSJ piece, Dr. Frank]
New York Times
Why pro-choice Is a bad choice for Democrats
By Melinda Henneberger
June 22, 2007
I KEEP reading about a universe in which social conservatives are warming to Rudy Giuliani. But this would have to be a place where his estranged children and three wives and multiple appearances in fishnets were irrelevant to the Republican base. Where the nice gay couple he moved in with between marriages would be asked to appear in the film montage at the nominating convention in St. Paul.
Even in the real world, a pro-choice Republican nominee would be a gift to the Democrats, because the Republican Party wins over so many swing voters on abortion alone. Which is why Fred Thompson, who is against abortion rights, is getting so much grateful attention from his party now. And why, despite wide opposition to the war in Iraq, Democrats must still win back such voters to take the White House next year.
Over 18 months, I traveled to 20 states listening to women of all ages, races, tax brackets and points of view speak at length on the issues they care about heading into ’08. They convinced me that the conventional wisdom was wrong about the last presidential contest, that Democrats did not lose support among women because “security moms” saw President Bush as the better protector against terrorism. What first-time defectors mentioned most often was abortion.
Why would that be, given that Roe v. Wade was decided almost 35 years ago? Opponents of abortion rights saw 2004 as the chance of a lifetime to overturn Roe, with a movement favorite already in the Oval Office and several spots on the Supreme Court likely to open up. A handful of Catholic bishops spoke out more plainly than in any previous election season and moved the Catholic swing vote that Al Gore had won in 2000 to Mr. Bush.
The standard response from Democratic leaders has been that anyone lost to them over this issue is not coming back – and that regrettable as that might be, there is nothing to be done. But that is not what I heard from these voters.
Many of them, Catholic women in particular, are liberal, deep-in-their-heart Democrats who support social spending, who opposed the war from the start and who cross their arms over their chests reflexively when they say the word “Republican.” Some could fairly be described as desperate to find a way home. And if the party they’d prefer doesn’t send a car for them, with a really polite driver, it will have only itself to blame.
What would it take to win them back? Respect, for starters – and not only on the night of the candidate forum on faith. As it turns out, you cannot call people extremists and expect them to vote for you. But real respect would require an understanding that what supporters of abortion rights genuinely see as a hard-earned freedom, opponents genuinely see as a self-inflicted wound and – though I can feel some of you tensing as you read this – a human rights issue comparable to slavery.
Again and again, these voters said Democrats are too unwilling to tolerate dissent on abortion. It is a point of orthodoxy no more open to debate within the party than the ordination of women is in Rome.
Democratic Party leaders should also stop pushing the perception that Republicans are natural defenders of the faithful. For years, they have done just that by tirelessly portraying our current president as this committed – indeed, obsessed – pro-lifer who would stop at nothing to see Roe overturned. Karl Rove couldn’t have said it better himself; this was better advertising than hard money could buy.
Today, in a similarly oblivious way, the leading Democratic presidential contenders are condemning the Supreme Court’s recent decision to uphold a ban on the procedure known as partial-birth abortion. An overwhelming majority of Americans, polls show, support a ban. Legal scholars have underscored the narrowness of the ruling in the partial-birth case, Gonzales v. Carhart, which does not even outlaw all late-term abortions. Yet the leading Democratic candidates, all of whom are lawyers, choose to overstate its impact.
Hillary Clinton called the decision “a dramatic departure from four decades of Supreme Court rulings that … recognized the importance of women’s health.” Barack Obama echoed that it “dramatically departs from previous precedents safeguarding the health of pregnant women.” Though John Edwards was one of only two United States senators who did not cast a vote on the bill in 2003, he, too, found the decision to uphold that law “ill-considered and sweeping,” and “a stark reminder of why Democrats cannot afford to lose the 2008 election.”
Actually, it is a stark reminder of how fully capable they all are of losing it. A Democratic senator I spoke with recently did not see the disconnect between public opinion and the party’s position on Carhart as any reason to worry: “Make no mistake; this is a pro-choice country, period.”
But in a recent New York Times/CBS News poll, 41 percent of respondents favored stricter limits on abortion, with an additional 23 percent saying it should not be permitted at all.
What are we to make of all this? Surely at a minimum that our enduring reluctance to acknowledge the complexity of the abortion issue has only prolonged and hardened the debate. Most Americans fall somewhere between the extremes of “never” and “no problem” when it comes to abortion.
What polling can’t capture and politicians won’t hear is the voice of the nun I interviewed who considers herself pro-choice – and has been disciplined by her diocese as a result – because she does not think abortion is wrong for rape victims. Or the voices of the many women I spoke to who hold far more expansive views yet call themselves pro-life. Most people differentiate between a fetus in the early weeks of development and at nearly full term, and draw the line at a procedure that Democratic Senator Pat Moynihan regarded as infanticide.
Would Democrats who hate Carhart really switch parties or stay home on Election Day if their leaders began to acknowledge such distinctions? After the last seven years, I don’t think so. Yes, the abortion-rights lobby has raised a lot of money since the ban, but the statements of the Democratic candidates will cost them, too. This issue has been very, very good to the Republican Party – and there is plenty more where that came from.
Melinda Henneberger is the author of “If They Only Listened to Us: What Women Voters Want Politicians to Hear.”
Copyright 2007 The New York Times Company
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Wall Street Journal
Unintended consequences: It’s not enough to be ‘wanted’
Illegitimacy has risen despite – indeed, because of – legal abortion.
By John R. Lott Jr.
June 19, 2007
The abortion debate usually centers on the morality of the act itself. But liberalizing abortion rules from 1969 to 1973 ignited vast social changes in America. With the perennial political debate over abortion again consuming the presidential campaign and the Supreme Court, it might be time to evaluate what Roe v. Wade has meant in practical terms.
One often misunderstood fact: Legal abortions just didn’t start with Roe, or even with the five states that liberalized abortion laws in 1969 and 1970. Prior to Roe, women could have abortions when their lives or health were endangered. Doctors in some states, such as Kansas, had very liberal interpretations of what constituted danger to health. Nevertheless, Roe did substantially increase abortions, more than doubling the rate per live birth in the five years from 1972 to 1977. But many other changes occurred at the same time:
Some of this might seem contradictory. Why would both the number of abortions and of out-of-wedlock births go up? If there were more illegitimate births, why were fewer children available for adoption?
As to the first puzzle, part of the answer lies in attitudes to premarital sex. With abortion seen as a backup, women as well as men became less careful in using contraceptives as well as more likely to have premarital sex. There were more unplanned pregnancies. But legal abortion did not mean every unplanned pregnancy led to abortion. After all, just because abortion is legal, does not mean that the decision is an easy one.
Many academic studies have shown that legalized abortion, by encouraging premarital sex, increased the number of unplanned births, even outweighing the reduction in unplanned births due to abortion. In the United States from the early 1970s, when abortion was liberalized, through the late 1980s, there was a tremendous increase in the rate of out-of-wedlock births, rising from an average of 5% of all births in 1965-69 to more than 16% two decades later (1985-1989). For blacks, the numbers soared from 35% to 62%. While not all of this rise can be attributed to liberalized abortion rules, it was nevertheless a key contributing factor.
With legalization and women not forced to go through with an unplanned pregnancy, a man might well expect his partner to have an abortion if a sexual encounter results in an unplanned pregnancy. But what happens if the woman refuses? Maybe she is morally opposed to abortion; or perhaps she thought she could have an abortion, but upon becoming pregnant, she decides that she can’t go through with it. What happens then?
Many men, feeling tricked into unwanted fatherhood, will likely wash their hands of the affair altogether, thinking, “I never wanted a baby. It’s her choice, so let her raise the baby herself.” What is expected of men in this position has changed dramatically in the last four decades. The evidence shows that the greater availability of abortion largely ended “shotgun” marriages, where men felt obligated to marrying the woman.
What has happened to these babies of reluctant fathers? The mothers often end up raising the child on their own. Even as abortion has led to more out-of-wedlock births, it has also dramatically reduced adoptions of children born in America by two-parent families. Before Roe, when abortion was much more difficult, women who would have chosen an abortion but were unable to get one turned to adoption as their backup. After Roe, women who turned down an abortion were also the type who wanted to keep the child.
But all these changes–rising out-of-wedlock births, plummeting adoption rates, and the end of shotgun marriages–meant one thing: more single parent families. With work and other demands on their time, single parents, no matter how “wanted” their child may be, tend to devote less attention to their children than do married couples; after all, it’s difficult for one person to spend as much time with a child as two people can.
From the beginning of the abortion debate, those favoring abortion have pointed to the social costs of “unwanted” children who simply won’t get the attention of “wanted” ones. But there is a trade-off that has long been neglected. Abortion may eliminate “unwanted” children, but it increases out-of-wedlock births and single parenthood. Unfortunately, the social consequences of illegitimacy dominated.
Children born after liberalized abortion rules have suffered a series of problems from problems at school to more crime. The saddest fact is that it is the most vulnerable in society, poor blacks, who have suffered the most from these changes.
Liberalized abortion might have made life easier for many, but like sex itself sometimes, it has had many unintended consequences.
Mr. Lott is the author of “Freedomnomics,” which you can buy from the OpinionJournal bookstore.
Copyright 2007 Dow Jones & Company, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Also, some readers of this blog may know Dan McConchie of Americans United for Life. He was involved in a serious motorcycle accident Friday that resulted in a lower spinal cord injury. No further details known yet. Please pray for Dan.
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Whoa! That’s bad!
Fortunately, there’s been some amazing embryonic stem cell research that may repair that:
Stem Cells May Help Reverse Paralysis
Tests Succeed in Paralyzed Rats; Method May Help People, Scientists Say
By Miranda Hitti
WebMD Medical NewsReviewed by Louise Chang, MDJune 21, 2006 — With some chemical help, embryonic stem cells may help reverse paralysis, tests done on paralyzed rats show.
The technique, described in the July issue of the Annals of Neurology, hasn’t been tested on people yet.
But, based on the results seen in adult rats, the method may be a “potential therapeutic intervention for humans with paralysis,” write the researchers. They include Deepa Deshpande, MS, MBIOT, and Douglas Kerr, MD, PhD, both of Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Md.
This isn’t the first time scientists have tested stem cells in paralyzed animals. But the new study’s method differs from that in past experiments.
Stem cells can develop into different types of cells, although embryonic stem cells may have a wider range of possibilities than adult stem cells.
Stem Cell Test
In this experiment, the scientists first did some lab work on embryonic mice stem cells. They used chemicals to tell the cells to become motor neurons, which are nerve cells that control muscles.
The mouse stem cells spent 3.5 days growing into motor neurons in the lab.
Then, researchers transplanted them into the spinal cords of 120 paralyzed adult rats.
As part of the experiment, the scientists created a key test group of 15 paralyzed rats. Those rats got a deluxe stem cell package souped up with three extras:
Chemical pretreatment of the stem cells to help new motor neurons survive
Chemicals to help the rats’ bodies accept the stem cells
Chemicals that told the stem cells where to park to help one of the rats’ hind paws
For comparison, the other rats got few or none of these additives with their stem cells.
Partial Reversal of Paralysis
Six months later, 11 of the 15 rats in the key test group could put weight on the paralyzed hind paw their stem cells had been instructed to target. Those rats could also step off from that paw.
None of the other rats in the study were able to do that.
But even in the key test group, paralysis recovery was only partial; the rats couldn’t move the hind paw that hadn’t been targeted by the stem cells.
Rats in the key test group made 125 new nerve connections to muscle, 50 of which reached and worked in the targeted hind paw.
The other rats had similar numbers of surviving, transplant-derived motor neurons. But without the full package of chemical perks, those motor neurons didn’t bring paralysis recovery, the study showed.
In short, embryonic stem cells show promise against paralysis in rats, but it may take extra chemical help to get the biggest benefits.
If I was paralyzed, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I would NOT want to use EMBRYONIC stem cells to help, even if it was a proven FACT. Now, if adult stem cells were to work, that is a different story, as no one would be killed in order for me to walk again. I wonder Laura, do you know how Dan McConchie feels about this?
Laura,
I afraid you’re behind the times. In fact adult stem cells, taken from the patients’ own bodies, have already been used to treat paralysis. In South Korea, one paralyzed woman actually stood for the first time in 18 years after treatment with adult stem cells. I believe scientists in Portugal also had some success treating paralysis with adult stem cells. In Brazil, diabetics were successfully treated using their own adult stem cells. The late Hawaiian performer Don Ho received adult stem cell treatment in Thailand for his failing heart and went from almost total disability back to performing. Sadly, he only lived about 2-3 years, but those were good years he may not otherwise have had.
New mothers are certainly better informed than most. At our hospital many new mothers are saving umbilical cord blood because the stem cells in this blood have also shown promise. I believe it was stem cells from cord blood that proved successful in treating a genetic disorder called Krabbe’s Disease. Infants receiving this treatment were free of symptoms but time was still needed to determine success.
We need to get out of this embryonic stem cell time warp and catch up with the rest of the world!
Mary, thanks for that.
Laura, although I’m angry you turned a personal friend’s accident into an embryo destruction PR op, Mary is right. Adult stem cells have already been there, done that, and on humans, not rats.
God bless you Dan. I hope you get well!
“I’m angry you turned a personal friend’s accident into an embryo destruction PR op…”
LMAO
If that aint the pot calling the kettle black, I don’t know what is.
I hope Dan gets well, God Bless him. Everybody I know who has a motorcycle has spilled a least one time…
Excellent articles (WSJ especially), pro-deathers, read it and weep:
Nevertheless, Roe did substantially increase abortions, more than doubling the rate per live birth in the five years from 1972 to 1977. But many other changes occurred at the same time:
# A sharp increase in pre-marital sex.
# A sharp rise in out-of-wedlock births.
# A drop in the number of children placed for adoption.
# A decline in marriages that occur after the woman is pregnant
Hi jasper.
Hi Heather,
How are you?
good. typing i handed. baby is on my lap.
How is the baby doing. How old is she now?
Heather and Jasper,
My “baby” is now 20y/o and a paralegal. They grow up very fast!!
Yes, they do grow up fast, good for your baby. we always think of them as our “babies” don’t we.
Thank you Jasper. I am very proud of her. It wasn’t easy for her growing up with a sister who is mentally ill, and she could be a pistol at times, but she has become a very fine young woman and the daughter to me that her sister, through no fault of her own, can never be. I also have a son in college, the kind of son every mother dreams of. I idolize him. It would be nice though if he would call mama more often! I have everything to be thankful for, and then there are all my friends on this blog. What more can I ask for?
The lefty MSM:
http://www.mrc.org/cyberalerts/2007/cyb20070622.asp#1
An MSNBC.com investigation by Bill Dedman, posted Thursday, documented that of 144 journalists identified as having “made political contributions from 2004 through the start of the 2008 campaign,” the “newsroom checkbooks leaned to the left: 125 journalists [87 percent] gave to Democrats and liberal causes. Only 17 gave to Republicans,” a 7-to-1 tilt. (Two contributed to both parties.)
“It would be nice though if he would call mama more often! ”
Mary, I’m going to be 40 shortly and my 80 year-old Mom still says this to me. We just had a big birthday for her.
Jasper,
Only 40? Jasper, to me YOU are a baby!! Congratulations to your mother. My mother is 89 and people still compliment her on her beauty. She is very active, just very hard of hearing, and sometimes just a tad overcritical. She’s always worried about how I am dressed when visiting at the retirement complex where she lives. I mean, its not that I look or dress like Daisy Duke, but my mother is so worried about what the old ladies will think! She also reminds me that I could call mama more often.
Mary,
I think your Catholic correct? Have you ever listened to Father John Corapi? I think he’s great, I saw him in Boston last year..
Jasper,
No I’m not. I’m a lukewarm Lutheran, borderline agnostic. You’ll notice I avoid all religious discussions or bringing religion into my posts. This is just my preference. I do however respect the beliefs or non-beliefs of others and have no issue with people discussing them. It is just my preference not to.
“You’ll notice I avoid all religious discussions or bringing religion into my posts”
No prob, I thought you in some of the earlier posts you were talking about the church, must of got you mixed up with MK… It’s good to see that their some borderline agnostics who are pro-life though….
Jasper,
I think it shows that abortion is a moral issue, not a religious one, about which people of all faiths, borderline faith, and no faith can agree.
Yes, I agree Mary.
Jasper,
Looking back on my posts I’m afraid I may have come across as being annoyed that you asked me about my religion. I’m not at all and I hope I didn’t give you that impression. I, in fact, very much enjoyed our discussion and hope we’ll have more.
Mr Lott makes a common error in logic known as POST HOC ERGO PROPTER HOC–after the fact, therefore because of the fact, in attributing the increase of out-of-wedlock births to the liberalization of abortion laws. He attempts to bolster his conclusion that “Abortion … increases out-of-wedlock births and single parenthood” with a fanciful anecdote about an imaginary woman who is sexually active, careless with contraception, and yet also pro-life. Touching!
In Pennsylvania, the abortion docs are required by law to specifically inform the patient that if she chooses to grow her pregnancy the father is liable for child-support. Even if he offers to pay for the abortion, it doesn’t let him off the hook. Today paternity can be determined absolutely and fathers can be held responsible.
SOMG,
Its about time!
jasper, baby is good. She’ll be 3 months on the 19th.
Jasper,
Regarding religion, you may be too young to remember, but early leaders in the abortion movement made every effort to portray opposition to abortion as a “Catholic” issue. Dr. Nathanson stated in his book “Aborting America” that since the Catholic Church, unlike other faiths, had the most visible and easy to attack hierarchy, it was selected as a common enemy around which abortion advocates could rally their forces. The same tactic is used by hate groups such as the KKK. Dr. Nathanson said the selection was based on this factor alone, and if another church had had the same type of hierarchy, it might well have been targeted instead. A sympathetic and compliant media obediently fell into line. I wrote more than a few magazines taking them to task for their blatant bias and bigotry. Somehow attacking or singling out Catholics was never viewed as intolerant or bigoted. The Catholic faith of any pro-lifer was always mentioned but never when they were non-Catholic and we never heard anything of the religious beliefs of abortion advocates.
I remember one prominent national magazine that explained the passage of a pro-life bill as occurring because the state legislature was “under the influence of the Roman Catholic Church”. When I reminded these moronic editors, who obviously slept through Civics 101, that the voters, not the Catholic Church, puts legislators in office and the legislators must answer to the voters and not the Catholic Church,
they responded by saying that “a large number” of the legislators are Catholic and that’s what they based this statement on. I wrote back and asked for the exact number of Catholic legislators, as well as the number of Jewish, Protestant, Mormon, atheist, agnostic, and non-denominational religious legislators as well. Certainly the editors had done their research before making such a claim. Surprise, no response ever.
Nevertheless, Roe did substantially increase abortions, more than doubling the rate per live birth in the five years from 1972 to 1977. But many other changes occurred at the same time:
# A sharp increase in pre-marital sex.
# A sharp rise in out-of-wedlock births.
# A drop in the number of children placed for adoption.
# A decline in marriages that occur after the woman is pregnant
I personally am of the opinion that two people should not get married just because they have a child. Many children of split families say that this was the most loving decision their parents could make. Just because a couple makes one mistake and gets pregnant too early, they should not be expected to make another and marry for the wrong reasons. I had much rather see co-parenting and less abortions.
Mary, you used the word “catholic”. We try to avoid offensive language here, so we would prefer you to use the term “Poper-scoper” to describe members of the Church.
Did you know that divorce happens because people are selfish, not because they got married too young or pregnant or “fell out of love” Anyone can stay married if they really want to.
“Many children of split families say that this was the most loving decision their parents could make.”
If the parents learned how to be more selfless, they could have stayed together and happily, that would have been the best thing!
NotCatholic
Whatever
SamanthaT, 7:36a, said: “I personally am of the opinion that two people should not get married just because they have a child.”
Sam, although that sounds sensical, the reality is women and children suffer from that logic, which is very convenient for men. In other words, this thinking exploits women and children and caters to irresponsible men.
“I’m afraid I may have come across as being annoyed that you asked me about my religion.”
Hi Mary,
No you didn’t, I agree that abortion is a moral issue first before religon.
…and I agree with your 2nd post about how the abortion movement likes to bring religon into the argument to make it seem as though abortion is wrong only on religous grounds.
I’ve always felt if I had no religon at all, I would still be against abortion becuase I believe that it is immoral, a crime against humanity, etc.
My Catholic faith just affirms these views…
Anyone can stay married if they really want to.
Luv, the problem is that many people *dont* want to. I would not want to stay married to an alcoholic, or someone who was mentally or verbally or physically abusive, or someone who was adulterous. This idea and attitude that women and men need to stay together, no matter what, is responsible for the fact that women have abortions when they arent ready to get married. It is also the reason why so many children are growing up to be dysfunctional adults, and why a child will be kept in an abusive environment rather than being rescued by his parental advocate.
I was reading the terrible story of Jessie Davis’s murder on aol.com, and I came across this information of which I was previously unaware.
Ohio law allows a murder charge against someone accused of killing a fetus that would be able to live outside the womb.
http://news.aol.com/topnews/articles/_a/sheriff-says-pregnant-mom-killed-at-home/20070618113709990001
(Ohio law also prohibits abortion past the point of viability unless the mother is at risk of irreversible injury or the baby will not live: ORC 2919:17)
I think that granting rights to fetuses before birth, rights previously reserved for born persons, is a step in the right direction.
Hi NotCatholic,
a few decades ago, a Jesuit named Guttieres made a very interesting observation. The very earliest Christians called themselves catholics (which means ‘universal’) even though they were obviously the minority in society. He thought they only did such because they were at the very core of what it means to be human.
This idea is found today, but the word ‘Catholic’ has more political baggage than it used to.
SamanthaT: “This idea and attitude that women and men need to stay together, no matter what, is responsible for the fact that women have abortions when they arent ready to get married. It is also the reason why so many children are growing up to be dysfunctional adults”
Not. False.
SamanthaT,
thanks for the information on Ohio’s laws. I wonder if it’s related to Lacy and Conners Law which President Bush signed into law with strong opposition from Democrats…
I live 45 minutes from Akron/Canton. This has been all over the news. I’ll be back. Gotta run a errand.
Luv,
I must disagree with you concerning how anyone can stay married if they really want to. I’m sorry Luv, not in the real world. One person alone cannot maintain a relationship and there are times when it is impossible to maintain a marriage. I can name any number of situations. My siblings and I were relieved when my mother finally divorced my mentally ill, alcoholic, abusive father. My brother and sister still carry much bitterness and anger.’
Simply because people stay together does not mean their relationship is working. I feel that most people agonize over the decision to divorce and I firmly believe that many of these supposed “sudden” and “frivolous” divorces were in fact decisions that were agonized over for a long time. When we don’t live in someone’s marriage we have NO way of knowing what really goes on.
“I’ve always felt if I had no religon at all, I would still be against abortion becuase I believe that it is immoral, a crime against humanity, etc. My Catholic faith just affirms these views…”
Without your magic man in sky faith, you’d probably understand that women actually have rights too though… no matter how you felt about abortion.
Cameron, I know several pagan pro-lifers, agnostic pro-lifers, even a gay, atheist prolifer. Belief in a higher being isn’t the only influencing factor of the pro-life movement.
“I personally am of the opinion that two people should not get married just because they have a child.”
I have to agree.
I have a friend who got pregnant…nearly two years ago now, and she and her (then) boyfriend had talked about getting married as a result. They wound up not doing so, and the baby went to a friend of her family.
As tumultuous (I think that’s the right word) as their relationship was, getting married wouldn’t have changed anything and it certainly wouldn’t have been a good environment to raise a child in.
Well, at least that’s my opinion.
Hey Cameron:
I’ve been gone for a bit and noticed you are still ornery. I was pretty ornery today too. I ad areason though.
All:
Spent the last 4 days in the mountains of AZ. Took my 11 year old and my wife’s sister’s (who passed away) son to the wilderness to get away under the stars. We saw elk, wild turkey, caught trout, etc. Seeing the night sky in the wilderness is amazing. There are literally billions of stars visible that you can’t see in city light.
It’s tough when a 17 year old loses his mom.
We had Susan’s funeral today. The death of a loved one can drain the energy out of you. I wonder if this is how a mom feels when she has just had an abortion.
While I was gone my sister’s husband is in the hospital with serious heart problems and my niece had a serious bout of pnemonia and heart failure.
I just want to encourage anyone who might be thinking of having an abortion to please give it a second thought.
Just got a call from my native American friend. About 10 years ago, I met him in a downtown parking lot after a Suns game. He was a homeless, drunk. We took him in and he lived with us on and off for a few years and could never seem to shake the habit. Tonight he told me he was in jail for the last two years and just got out. I thought maybe he was killed or something as I hadn’t heard from him. So, this was a very good piece of news. He said he hasn’t had a drink in two years.
Even a Christian’s faith can be tested to the limit and the last six months has been a fiery trial. I’m going to press on though.
As Paul said we are struck down but not abandoned.
HisMan,
We drove through Arizona when we moved to Tennessee. It’s gorgeous, isn’t it?
His Man, you’re back! Welcome back. So very sorry for your loss!
HisMan,
Hope you didn’t bludgeon the kid with Jesus talk while out in the woods. ;-)
I hate funerals. Seems to bring out the worst in people. Relatives lashing out at each other and such.