That was never a question for me. When I found out, I was really shocked at the reunion, it was all new for me. But there was never really a question at my age…
I always knew that if I get pregnant at any time I’m not going to have an abortion.
So, it is what it is.
~ Love & Hip Hop New York star Amina Buddafly insisting that abortion was never an option for her in spite of her husband’s infidelity, as reported by Fashion Style, April 5
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So many teens and women I have met over the years confide in me that that was the plan. Pregnant? Abort.
They still feel guilty and ashamed so many years later but it is the grace of God they NEVER went down that path.
No one should feel guilt and shame for choosing not to abort! There should be no guilt or shame whatever they choose.
Let me explain for those that refuse to see the truth.
The guilt and shame come from the fact that they realized what they were really believing and MIGHT have done had they conceived while being promiscuous.
IF these women had conceived a child with a man and become parents they had already PLANNED to pay someone to kill their child.
And now that they know the truth about abortion? They shudder at what they might have done.
Now that they are married and have children they are grateful to God they NEVER darkened the door of a mill and had one of their flesh and blood murdered.
They come up to me and share this with me after I tell them my story of abortion and forgiveness.
Jill Stanek is a nurse turned speaker, columnist and blogger, a national figure in the effort to protect both preborn and postborn innocent human life.
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